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Hi I am 34 year old and we have 4 kids and my husband is 36 years old, recently i found my husband was having an affair with 21 years old lady which i came to know, and to make story short, even that affair happend since he ask forigveness, i forgive him, but I feel sometimes he is not satisfied with me and his ejaculation was not like before. It takes time, and even he will not ejaculate at all.
Is there anyway i can save our marriage and bring back hi sexual desire towards me like before.
Is there anyway i can save our marriage and bring back hi sexual desire towards me like before.
Have you tried talking to him about it? Possibly spicing things up in the bedroom? I think there comes a time in most people's relationship where the sex is no longer new and you need to change things up to get the flame roaring again.
~S.A.
~S.A.
Actually he already stops the affair, and this young lady has been married 2 months back, and as he always said he regrets. and even after that affairs happend he loves me so much and i fell that he regrets, and of course in my mind as my parents said, If he cheat once, he can cheat twice... and now that thought is always in my mind, but because of the child I forgive him. And my Question, Is he longing for this lady?, that affect his sexual desire for me?, I know this lady is beutiful body as my husbang likes, and well sexy. and myself of course after having 4 child my figure is gone. Is there anybody who has the same problem with me who can give me and advise what to do? and is there anyway he will be attracted to me again. In the sense of what?????
I agree with the previous poster. Although you have forgiven him, have you really addressed and dealt with the reasons he pursued the affair in the first place? If not, these issues might be what's holding him back.
I would say that even with your forgiveness he is have mental blocks that does not allow him to preform they way you would want him to. As far as saving your marriage and getting his sex drive back, that is totally up to the both of you. It can be done but you both have to really want it and be willing to work on it together. My honest opinion is that the affair is still something he is struggling with.
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