Help my sex life!!

[Kayjohn]

I havent had sex since Thanksgiving but about a month ago I got fingered really rough and I found blood in the sheets (guessing his finger cut me). I just recently got fingered and it hurt so bad I had to stop it. I cant even imagine having sex after how bad it hurt to get fingered. I have also been having a lot of clear white discharge that does have a fishy oder. my lymph node on my right side near vagina does feel a little swollen and is causing some pain. What could this be? STD, Yeast infection, BV??

[Cupcake2191]

Also, if you continue.with this form of penetration, ask him to clip his nails :) often men forget that it can cut us! Good luck!

[Alexpent]

yes he's right you need to be more lubricated, and let him take his time if its all smooth sailing then you guy can raise tempos. Don't hurt yourself, guys dont really feel much pain females do. Protect yourself as you enjoy.

[Kayjohn]

Hi thank you for answering! I will try the sea salt method and if that doesn't work I will go to the doc. I will try out lubrication next time!

[NOHARD]

Hi Kay, sounds like you have BV. you have two choices, choice one go see your doctor, he will give you antibiotics to clear it.
Or you could try sea salt, if you google sea salt and bv, your find all the answer and how there, if your against antibiotics, it could be the way to go,

So next time you get a male friend, and you want to get fingered, either tell him to take his time and get your natural juices running, or just get yourself some lubrication and get him to use that.
Its just the same as when its time for sex, he either gets your natural juices running, or you use lubrication.
Not for getting to use condoms, or get yourself on some kind of BC.
Safe sex is best, but at 22 you should know that.
Do hope this helps.
Good Luck