How much does sex matter? please help me

[ftw]

(male)Two and a half years ago I was a normal, horny teenager who masturbated daily and had a huge sex drive.  Now I'm sixteen, can't orgasm, can't have an erection for more than a few minutes, usually *** in around a minute when I masturbate, and have zero sex drive.  Jacking off just hurts and depresses me. On top of that I have a bladder problem which makes my **** hurt every thirty minutes or so if I don't go to the bathroom.  I've seen multiple doctors to discuss the bladder problem but haven't even brought up the fact that I'm incapable of ever having sex.  I don't think my current issues will ever change and I'm trying to come to terms with how I will live my life without ever experiencing sex.  I mean, I'm sure I could get laid if I wanted to but I'm too scared of the embarrassment and absolute shame of only lasting a literal minute in bed.  Will I ever be able to have a normal, meaningful relationship with a girl?  How would I explain this to a girlfriend whom I love?  I know I shouldn't kill myself, but the idea of living has lost so much meaning.

[Dalubaba]

Take full treatment for bladder problem. I think if your bladder problem is solved, your sexual problem will be automatically solved.Probably bladder problem is the cause of your  sexual problem. Bladder and prostate take a lot of timeto recover.

[Dalubaba]

Take general care of your health and sexual problem will be resolved automatically. If you like, you can google, Deer Exercise for man. This is a two part exercise for increasing sexual stamina. Learn the technique and practice it regularly. Masturbation is a natural habit. It does not damage permanently. Few tips on masturbation. Do not use dry hand, use lubricated hand. Do not stop breathing while masturbating. Do not masturbate when you are extremely excited (do deep abdominal breathing to calm your self). Do not visualize more exotic scenerio. If you do all the above your recovery will be fast. wish you best of luck.

[jefelex]

once you have the UTI figured out (which is what it sounds like - are you sure the doctors have confirmed that it isn't a UTI?)  then since you are only 16, give yourself a chance to grow up into an adult!  Then things will be great!!