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Female dominance is sex
Many persons across different parts of world consider cunnilingus giving to wife as female-dominance in sex.
Does it really boost females ego?
Does it really boost females ego?
i think it's not dominance or whatever term. my point is i want to give my partner the sexual fulfillment when we are together. so i don't bother if i give her a cunnilingus,besides i really like what i'm doing it also boost my libido.
It is an absolute turn on when my wife "takes control" She has in the past used her toys on me. I have been penetrated by her with these toys and she really gets excited when she takes charge. I enjoy it as well.
When speaking about the (im)balance of power between the sexes or so-called male / female dominance in sex, three levels or areas should be distinguished:
1.social level
2.personal level = relationships, marriage etc
3.sexual scenarious, sexual activities
1.In social levels I think that female dominance is not directly related to cunnilingus. Maybe remotedly, when women feel more empowered to demand sexual pleasure and they feel more entitled to experience sexual pleasure provided by men. In comparison with earlier historical eras, nowadays women can be seen as equal to men also in the field of sexual pleasure and sexual "rights". The social representations of sexual intercourse have been changed and women are encouraged not to feel ashamed or guilty when they want to experience sexual pleasure.
2.In relationships, I would say that cunnilingus is not directly related to female dominance. The distribution of power or dominance within a relationship is related more to emotional and probably financial and economic functions within a family or relationship. For example, a woman can be completely submissive in bed but she can be the more dominant partner in other functions of the family unit and vice versa.
3.In sexual scenarios, we can distinguish two subcategories:
a)role playing scenarious practised by people and couples within sexual variations related to BDSM activities - in these cases, cunnilingus can be creatively incorporated into these scenarious when the more submissive partner has to serve the needs of the dominant partner, so a male "slave" has to please his dominatrix and he is sometimes denied the pleasure. Needless to say, that these activities are practised in a consensual way and the submissive partner derives as much sexual pleasure and excitement from his/her role as his/her dominant counterpart. In these contexts cunnilungus can be viewed as a submissive behaviour ("I have to please her") but also as an aspect of dominating behaviour ("She is tied and helpless and I will play with her body as I want").
b)sexual activities within "normal" and "equal" contexts of sexual satisfaction - in this way I would not link oral sex to any form of dominance as it can be equally pleasurable for the giver and the taker.
My personal preference - I love cunnilingus regardless of its power aspects because I love pleasing my partner and her excitement and orgasms play an irreplaceable role in my own sexual pleasure and giving oral is also one of the most arousing activities I can imagine in my sex life, so I would "ask for it" regardless of the amount of power I experience within social, personal or sexual areas.
1.social level
2.personal level = relationships, marriage etc
3.sexual scenarious, sexual activities
1.In social levels I think that female dominance is not directly related to cunnilingus. Maybe remotedly, when women feel more empowered to demand sexual pleasure and they feel more entitled to experience sexual pleasure provided by men. In comparison with earlier historical eras, nowadays women can be seen as equal to men also in the field of sexual pleasure and sexual "rights". The social representations of sexual intercourse have been changed and women are encouraged not to feel ashamed or guilty when they want to experience sexual pleasure.
2.In relationships, I would say that cunnilingus is not directly related to female dominance. The distribution of power or dominance within a relationship is related more to emotional and probably financial and economic functions within a family or relationship. For example, a woman can be completely submissive in bed but she can be the more dominant partner in other functions of the family unit and vice versa.
3.In sexual scenarios, we can distinguish two subcategories:
a)role playing scenarious practised by people and couples within sexual variations related to BDSM activities - in these cases, cunnilingus can be creatively incorporated into these scenarious when the more submissive partner has to serve the needs of the dominant partner, so a male "slave" has to please his dominatrix and he is sometimes denied the pleasure. Needless to say, that these activities are practised in a consensual way and the submissive partner derives as much sexual pleasure and excitement from his/her role as his/her dominant counterpart. In these contexts cunnilungus can be viewed as a submissive behaviour ("I have to please her") but also as an aspect of dominating behaviour ("She is tied and helpless and I will play with her body as I want").
b)sexual activities within "normal" and "equal" contexts of sexual satisfaction - in this way I would not link oral sex to any form of dominance as it can be equally pleasurable for the giver and the taker.
My personal preference - I love cunnilingus regardless of its power aspects because I love pleasing my partner and her excitement and orgasms play an irreplaceable role in my own sexual pleasure and giving oral is also one of the most arousing activities I can imagine in my sex life, so I would "ask for it" regardless of the amount of power I experience within social, personal or sexual areas.
Actually I feel more dominant & more of an ego boost when it's the other way around. I tend to feel out of control when it's me receiving.
i feel like the ego boost comes from getting off. thats just an easy way to make her scream.
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