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I FANCY MY COUSIN

Is it wrong to fancy a cousin, we are all going on a family holiday soon and my female cousin is coming, she is a distant cousin, problem is I think she's hot and she is very flirty with me.  I know she will be teasing me the whole time we are away, what I am worried about is if I can control myself.  Would it be wrong even though I am an adult age if I was to lose control.  The last time we all went away I had just started getting erections and she was teasing me when the rest of the family were out of eye shot of course.  She thought it amusing to go topless and rub cream in her boobs in front of me when myself, my brother and her went down to the beach alone!  It was torture for me.  I know I wont be able to sleep knowing she's in the next room and my parents would not allow anything to happen, its going to drive me mad.
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1255530 tn?1269867619
the birth defect thing wouldn't be a problem if shes distant I'm sure the genes are far an of apart to have no more risk. as I said look it up cause im not an expert on genes lol. enjoy your family gathering
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1255530 tn?1269867619
actually a second cousin in most states I believe is legal. U have access to online look up the laws in your state. Shes distant so there shouldn't be any problems. Sounds like she enjoys turning u on! Do your homework and if shes distant like u say I see no problem. Only if she was a close relative would I worry and seek help.
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also...if she would end up pregnant the children could end up with birth defects.
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1999441 tn?1589741765
I don't blame you.  Most of my cousins are HOT and I had lots of fantasies as a teen.  One difference I was adopted so they are not blood relatives.  Talk to her and find out why she gets her kicks from prick teasing you.  Tell her if she keeps it up you are going to screw her brains out.  She will either stop and run away or she might jump your bones.  Just let things play out and see what happens.
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I am currently in a relationship with my first cousin and we are expecting a child. Some family members were a little upset but everyone ended up getting over it. We are deeply in love and once you get past the initial weirdness, there are benefits to it. We share lots of family and we will go through deaths together for support
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You shouldn't sleep with you're cousin, and she shouldn't tease you like that... That's just wrong
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1101690 tn?1268499639
Cultural norms about incest can be different. While in most countries it is illegal to have sexual relationship with closest relatives - parents and children and siblings - it is not always illegal between cousins and other more distant relatives. For example, in my country the law does not deal with other relatives (apart from parents and children, brothers and sisters), so sexual activities with cousins would be legally OK -BUT of course it could have bad impact on family relationships etc because of moral / social / cultural norms - but not because of law and legal regulations....
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Actually my oppinion is something different. Infact if she is agreed then you can enjoy sex with her and also give her pleasures. But it should be my mutual understanding and only if she is adult.
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in most countries it's not appropriate or accepted for family to be together. that's what's called incest and is frowned upon. i'm fairly certain it's illegal at least here in the states.

if it's that hard for you to control yourself don't be alone with her. anytime you're near her be sure there are other adults around.
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