I screwed up! Hid things good but not good enough.

[amethyst1991]

A few weeks back I bought a pregnancy test kit. It was negative. Then, I have one more left. I did not want to use it because I might need it again. I hid it in one of the most secure places in my room. inside my laptop bag where I keep all my stuff for school and such and it was on the very top of our cabinet.. Now!!! here's the twist. I think my mom went through my stuff and found out that I used it!!! omg!! what to do what to do.

She hasn't formally met my boyfriend. I'm sooo scared! Right now they're having dinner and I don't want to go out.. I'm pretty sure that when I left the test it was still in it's pharmacy bag. Now it's just the box. I'm freaking out, What to do what to do!! And me and my boyfriend were  already planning to set a meeting this week!! I don't want them to think that I'm pregnant or something. I don't want them to think badly of my boyfriend. If my hunches are true. My mom has not told my dad. But I'm not entirely sure. I'm so screwed...=_______=

[NOHARD]

Hi Amethyst, You could start by saying, Hi Mum can we talk, and go from there, be straight with her, don't talk down to her, listen to her and hopefully she will listen to you, but ask her if she by any chance cleaned in your bedroom, and was she looking for anything.
But keep calm, if she asks if your having sex, just say yes, your 22 years of age and should not be worried.
As long as you did not have sex in your room or anywhere in the house, you should not have broken any house rules.
Just stay clam and keep happy, and Good Luck

[amethyst1991]

thank you for your suggestions. It will be hard to do this but hopefully I can pull this off I don't want to stay this way especially with my mom. She will know eventually.

[amethyst1991]

boyfriend finally messaged me back. I asked him if he was scared. and he was too. I understand the feeling but I think I super scared because I am the one that lives under the same roof as my parents. He told me to just keep quiet about it and just let it pass

[amethyst1991]

i am very confused to what to tell her. I'm the first born and the pressure gets higher every time. with this I have no idea how to start the conversation. Hiding away inside my room won't really be a help at this time. I'm also upset because my boyfriend is not calling me back. he dropped my call and he won't answer my messages. I don't want to think that his backing out on this relationship but he should at least try to comfort me.

[NOHARD]

Hi Amethyst, Nice name, I think its time to sit down with your Mum, produce the box, tell the truth, and tell her its best to be safe that sorry, but get your self some condoms, or get on the pill.

But remember, A Mum is a girls best friend, try and keep her that way.

Good Luck

[Vance2335]

Can't really help you with "what if" because that is what this is.

[amethyst1991]

should I tell my boyfriend about this? I don't want him to be scared. Just when I finally made him agree to meet my parents...

[amethyst1991]

i should have thrown it out!! :(