I am married for 3 years till now. My problem that most of the time I do not have any sex drive. During honey moon, I wasn't interested in sex, intercourse was painfull and it took quite too long to open my vagina (knowing that I was a vergin). My husband is sexually active, and we always have problems that he wants sex while I don't. It sometimes takes upto a month to have an intercourse. I do not feel normal orgasm during the intercourse unless my husband stimulates me with his hand, and I then get orgasm, but it would be before he enters me. So when the intercourse happens I don't feel anything but pain.
I have a history of GAD, OCD, depression and stress, not sure if those play part in my complaint. I saw my doctor who gave me medications, but did not work with me.
I as well use to masturbate during teenage, would this have a negative impact on my sex life.
I have problems of vaginal discharge now, and I feel pain during the intercourse as if I someone put pepper in my vagina.
I have an issue of PCO as well and infertility problems, does this contribute to the problem.
What shall I do, as my husband is very upset with me, and is threateningto leave me.