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My boyfriend likes shemales does that make him gay?
Hi, I recently learned that my boyfriend is into shemale porn and it freaks me out! He keeps denying that hes into that stuff, but i've seen that **** on his phone on several occasions. It makes me wonder if he's gay or bisexual and it also makes me wonder if he imagines me with a penis while were having sex. And i know that sounds funny, but it's really really bothering me. I also had the thought that he might leave me for a tranny someday. LOL. Please can anyone tell me if this makes him gay or bi? Are the any "straight" men out there who are also into that so you can explain this to me? Please i want to understand..I love him very much and this ***** :(
Maybe he is bicurious, or, as many men do, they like to compare their dicks to what they see on the screen. It causes more intriegue or unbelief to see a transgender with a big penis in a womans body. Some come to say it is unfair to those straight and have standard or small penis.
On the other hand, there can be two other options. One is that he is discovering some morbid affection to women with a penis and you could experiment with a strap-on to see if this pleases him. This will not mean he is gay if he accepts a penetration. To be gay, he has to be heart and body, not just the body. That is were bi-sexual comes in.
From experience I can state that I am bisexual, meaning this that I like watching women, love their breasts, thighs, everything. I get aroused an fantasize with them. I've married twice, have children, but I enjoy having sex with men. I like exploiting that side of my sexuality and it is a fact that I can get great sex in both ways. One thing though, I have never felt any attraction for a man, as to fall in love with him. My love is with women.
Probably if my wives would have understood my preferences and used the strap-on, our marriages would still work :). We all have homosexuality in ourselves. Some let it flow, others not and are sexually frustrated. I must say that when I was with them or any other woman in my life, my excitement, arousal and pleasure have not had any comlaints so far.
The other thought is that you try anal sex with him. It is not a sexual orientation to feel attracted to anal sex, it is somewhat the same as oral sex or any other type of sexual activity. If you are willing to do this and to make it pleasurable for you, be sure to read and understand how to experience a sound anal penetration. If not done right it can be very painful and frustrating for both.
Hope this helps and not confuses you more
On the other hand, there can be two other options. One is that he is discovering some morbid affection to women with a penis and you could experiment with a strap-on to see if this pleases him. This will not mean he is gay if he accepts a penetration. To be gay, he has to be heart and body, not just the body. That is were bi-sexual comes in.
From experience I can state that I am bisexual, meaning this that I like watching women, love their breasts, thighs, everything. I get aroused an fantasize with them. I've married twice, have children, but I enjoy having sex with men. I like exploiting that side of my sexuality and it is a fact that I can get great sex in both ways. One thing though, I have never felt any attraction for a man, as to fall in love with him. My love is with women.
Probably if my wives would have understood my preferences and used the strap-on, our marriages would still work :). We all have homosexuality in ourselves. Some let it flow, others not and are sexually frustrated. I must say that when I was with them or any other woman in my life, my excitement, arousal and pleasure have not had any comlaints so far.
The other thought is that you try anal sex with him. It is not a sexual orientation to feel attracted to anal sex, it is somewhat the same as oral sex or any other type of sexual activity. If you are willing to do this and to make it pleasurable for you, be sure to read and understand how to experience a sound anal penetration. If not done right it can be very painful and frustrating for both.
Hope this helps and not confuses you more
There are some confusing responses here. Sexual curiosity does not mean you are one way or the other sexually. Only the individual will know what sexual path he or she is on or desires. Many times, arousal from other forms of sexual activity is only a curiosity that ends after a while. I don't believe it's any indication of homosexuality.
LOL oh my god, Why the hell do people get married ? If I was you I would go out and plant a veggie patch un the garden and let him enjoy His masturbation its his business, people dont own people just because they are a couple, married or not
I really dont understand whats wrong with these people!
These "shemales" are MEN!!!
for example just because a girl dates another girl but that girl looks masculine doesnt make the girl straight makes her a lesbian.
just because they have fake boobs and long hair doenst make them female at all therefore doesnt make u straight!!
i dont undertnad how the "straight" guys here say they are not attracted by the fact they have a penis but everything else? then why not watch straight porn
thats what shemales are, MEN
end of story
These "shemales" are MEN!!!
for example just because a girl dates another girl but that girl looks masculine doesnt make the girl straight makes her a lesbian.
just because they have fake boobs and long hair doenst make them female at all therefore doesnt make u straight!!
i dont undertnad how the "straight" guys here say they are not attracted by the fact they have a penis but everything else? then why not watch straight porn
thats what shemales are, MEN
end of story
Hi,
My husband of only 4 months cheated on me with another women at christmas and then this week i caught him looking at shemale porn and his excuse was to see how they wank and see if they can last longer. Should I give up on us now, or leave it till he does it again.
My husband of only 4 months cheated on me with another women at christmas and then this week i caught him looking at shemale porn and his excuse was to see how they wank and see if they can last longer. Should I give up on us now, or leave it till he does it again.
Not necessarily. I think you'll find this video interesting. It's two neuroscientists explaining why heterosexual males are into shemale porn.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMoEs7eQeZE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMoEs7eQeZE
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