My boyfriend likes shemales does that make him gay?

[danv86]

Hi, I recently learned that my boyfriend is into shemale porn and it freaks me out! He keeps denying that hes into that stuff, but i've seen that **** on his phone on several occasions. It makes me wonder if he's gay or bisexual and it also makes me wonder if he imagines me with a penis while were having sex. And i know that sounds funny, but it's really really bothering me. I also had the thought that he might leave me for a tranny someday. LOL. Please can anyone tell me if this makes him gay or bi? Are the any "straight" men out there who are also into that so you can explain this to me? Please i want to understand..I love him very much and this ***** :(

[lidaddy]

so how do you explain the female from birth all the way to adulthood labeled man by the doctor you trust and go to for your medical exvice

[Ahmahgawhd]

Hey, I know this is late, but I'm going through EXACTLY EXACTLY the same thing. The first time I caught him, he said he liked "dangling himself" in front of people, and he liked feeling sexy and needed. I forgave him, and months later, he's still on Craigslist looking to blow "hot women with d*cks". I don't know, he promises that he's straight and it's only a fetish. It makes me very uncomfortable but for some reason I can't seem to leave him...  

[Ahmahgawhd]

Hey, I know this is late, but I'm going through EXACTLY EXACTLY the same thing. The first time I caught him, he said he liked "dangling himself" in front of people, and he liked feeling sexy and needed. I forgave him, and months later, he's still on Craigslist looking to blow "hot women with d*cks". I don't know, he promises that he's straight and it's only a fetish. It makes me very uncomfortable but for some reason I can't seem to leave him...  

[Devestated2014]

First let me tell you that I'm truly know what you are going through or went through. It's funny bc the same thing happened to me around the same time you posted this. My bf left his Skype open and I saw numerous sexual conversations with transsexuals. He blamed it on his brother who just recently got out of prison for 10 years. Said that bc his brother didn't know how to work a computer, he let him use his Skype account one time (password included) and he kept using the account from other devices. Believable at the time but I keep finding little pieces of evidence here and there about him that makes me wonder. My bf is the epitome of an alpha male. 6'2'', hairy, professional fighter...your typical man's man. I'm having a hard time getting over this though. This was the man I was planning on marrying and having children with. It's hard to fathom the idea of another man pleasuring him sexually being that he's so masculine. I have several gay friends and like to believe I have a "gay-dar" so I'm not sure how I let this one slip past me. The point is I was in just as much shock as you, completely devastated but I can't seem to get enough evidence on him to completely leave him alone. Any suggestions?

[sillybunz]

He isn't gay, you know how I know this?? Because gay men like to watch and get off to gay men not women with penises. Gay men don't like just a man's penis they like the whole package. Men have a G-Spot in there rectum so just because a man is straight doesn't mean he doesn't like to get off that way. A lot of women including myself find other women attractive and exciting but that doesn't mean I'm gay, which I'm not. I say if you really love him, you should except him and his fantasies and do your best to be open minded about what his fantasies are. My man is into the same thing and he cried when I first found out and felt ashamed but I told him it was different for me but I loved him and I was in no way disgusted by him or his fantasies. It had made our relationship so much stronger to be able to be open with one another about what turns us on and not be scared we will be judged. Experimenting sexually in a relationship is a good healthy thing for you both and trust me if you except his fantasies and at least make an effort to help fulfill his fantasies within reason of course he will be faithful and love you forever and will want to make you feel amazing in bed. For all you know you may even start to like it. You got to except someone for who they are if you love them but all your doing is making him feel ashamed and disgusted with himself when he had absolutely nothing to be ashamed of, I would lie to you too if I thought telling you the truth you would see me different and the love you had for me would change just because I like something sexual that's out of the norm for you.

[idkwtd88]

so what would you do in a situation like this: you are a woman happily married. He seems so happy and you have a great man-woman sex life. but one day you discover your husband lied to you from the beginning and he doesnt even wanna accept he likes this stuff. I am trying to make him accept like this at least i ll have an answer and leave. because i m not that kinky. and i told him that we can stay friends but i dont wanna be in a relationship like this, i hope you understand. its not because i m homophobic. i respect that. But when your own husband deceives you like this. you just lose your respect towards this kind of people. one of the trannies attacked me by sending a msg on my phone. most of them are just full of ********. i wanna help him but i dont know what to do. i cant put a fake penis and act like i m not a 100 percent woman. i feel really so bad.