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My boyfriend likes shemales does that make him gay?

Hi, I recently learned that my boyfriend is into shemale porn and it freaks me out! He keeps denying that hes into that stuff, but i've seen that **** on his phone on several occasions. It makes me wonder if he's gay or bisexual and it also makes me wonder if he imagines me with a penis while were having sex. And i know that sounds funny, but it's really really bothering me. I also had the thought that he might leave me for a tranny someday. LOL. Please can anyone tell me if this makes him gay or bi? Are the any "straight" men out there who are also into that so you can explain this to me? Please i want to understand..I love him very much and this ***** :(
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To clarify the second to last sentence, I'm talking about the transexuals that are 100% mentally female and physically female if it weren't for the penis. Not transvestites; I mean the kind you can't tell the difference with unless you actually see the package.
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One legit reason for watching such things is that it can be hot and/or amusing to see how someone who is completely female (besides the penis), reacts sexually to impulses coming from a male part. It's a bit complex and difficult to really explain/understand (it's deep stuff that can take some critical thought to  understand) but either way a guy is not gay just because they get turned on by this stuff. They are gay if they are just sexually attracted to your typical male; specifically to guys who don't look and behave exactly the same as a woman. Sexuality and turn-ons can really be so complicated.
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There is a thing called bi, its called people who have sex with women and men yu dumbo and I like shemale porn because I like seeing that type of stuff and im straight plus shemales have ****
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nt all man hu lyk shemale porn r gay, bisxul o bicurious. u cn judge de book by its cover same goes to man hu watch it, u hv to read de book to understnd it as wll as man.
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I just realized the more I read these forms the more problems I found out about myself. I to use to watch shemale pornagraphy as little as two weeks ago I recently went through some deep dark parts of my life I told my parents I was molested by a friend as a kid and that it scared me and lead me to do other things in life I regret. All I can say is he to probably has experienced something along the lines that lead him to watching that.
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i think you are so right
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