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617588 tn?1235651785

Is it worng for me to want to become a man?

Im female but i identify more as a male. I knew i was different ever sence i was ten but they say that at ten your too young to know what you want or who you are sexually. And im trying to get used to this hole thing. I mean im used to it. i would love to live the rest of my life as a man. I dont like myself, my body this hole girl thing is not for me. Never has been never will be. People are trying to change me. Trying to say that im a girl not a boy. I know what i am. I just wnat or kinda need some information on this. I mean i know its called transgender. but, is this a disorder or is it something wrong chemically in the brain? I dont know i just want to reasure my family and fiends that im not makeing this up that this is a real thing.
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Relax.  You're only 19.  When you're older and independent you'll figure out what you want out of life, and you'll be free to pursue it.
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Has anyone tried injecting testosterone daily with an insulin syringe?

Also no one ever did tell me what gelging was.
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You have to do what is right for you. Not all of us are born with a perfect sense of who we are, for whatever reason our bodies are one thing, and are minds are other. Noone can decide but you what is best for you. If you do decide to make the transition you will have to under go alot of therapy first to make sure that you are prepared to live the life that you will have chosen. I have no opinion either way as to whether or not you should make the change, I do however feel that noone should go through life hating themselves.
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although transgender is common news these days, become a transgender act wouldn't be easier than you are now.   I think you should try your best to become what you were born. You should try to like your self  first.. DOESN'T LIKE GIRLS' STUFF WOULD NOT MAKE YOU A BOY.  Go to counseling . Make a lot of friends. May be you'll meet a guy who will change your perspective. Good luck
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Actually I have heard of people changing sexes whose sexual orientation was no different than the norm. In other words they had a sex change that made a hetero couple into a gay couple.  Kind of odd in a way but not uncommon.
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Who are you sexually attracted to?  Men or women?
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I believe you are born a man or a women for a specific reason and that being a woman you will never be a man. But that is what I believe, I am not here to tell you what to do, you should talk with people who have gone through the same thing as you and do what you feel is right.
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484465 tn?1532214032
our world today:
singers attempting to be actors and actors attempting to be singers

kids wanting to grow up too fast and adults not wanting to grow up at all

men wanting to become women and women wanting to become men...
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have you tried counseling yet? your so young but if you've had these feelings since 10 years old something is going on. have you looked up information about changing your sex and what's involved? you should be who you want to be, just make sure this is what you really want. take care. Remar
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