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No Orgasm
I've had sex more than several time and I've never been able to have an orgasm. I've tried relaxing and it's not working. Is there anything else I could try? I've tried different positions and that's not working. Is there something medical that could explain this?
First things first, nothing is wrong with you, and you are doing nothing wrong!! You may be trying to hard. I have worked in the adult industry for many years, I cant tell you how many women come into my stores with the same issue....some at 40 years old! I must suggest exploration and masturbation. You dont need to go spend a ton of money on toys just yet. All we need is the ability to relax and a couple fingers. We cant fail at masturbation! If it feels good, your doing it right ;) Two spots to focus on are your clitoris and your g-spot. Both take a rhythmic movement to stimulate. We all know where our clitoris is but the g-spot can be tricky since it does not really have sensation until it is stimulated. Two fingers into the top wall of your vagina you will feel "ridges" that's the best way I know to describe it. Within those ridges is your g-spot, about the size of a walnut. As you stimulate and massage that area it will engorge and feel really good!! Work on those areas...you need to be able to do it yourself before anyone else can!! Good Luck!!
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Google the anorgasmia (coughlan's syndrome).You will find medical details. website is Wikipedia. Go through the article. You may consult a doctor to rule out the physical or psychological cause.Even pelvic trauma may give rise to this condition.The above exercise should be done after medical consultation.
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Google Female deer exercise.It will help you. your partner can do male deer exercise. This exercise with in a month's time. you can add kegel exercise.
There can be some gynecologic problem with you. It will be prudent , if you consult your gynecologist to rule out structural or medical defect.Wish you best of luck.
There can be some gynecologic problem with you. It will be prudent , if you consult your gynecologist to rule out structural or medical defect.Wish you best of luck.
Hi Kymberly, not to worry there are many women out there who have never had an orgasms, some women can hve them at the tuch of a nipple or the strok of there clitoris.
But one it will happen and when it does, just hold on to your hat.
Good Luck
PS try lots of fore play.
But one it will happen and when it does, just hold on to your hat.
Good Luck
PS try lots of fore play.
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