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Not Being Able To "Get It Up"

I was dating this guy for a few months, and when we finally decided to have sex, he wasn't able to get it up.  Now I know that this is an embarrasing situation for the male, but what exactly could have gone wrong?

He recently hurt his knee pretty badly during while playing a football, and he blamed it on the pain in his knee.  But i was talking with my girlfriend, and she says it's because he was nervous.  Now I don't know if I believe that, because he's been with many girls... and I would have never expected him to not being able to errect, because he had in the past...

Any thoughts?
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hey, i think hes either on a lot of drugs cuz of his knee and cant get it up or he couldnt get it up the first time for whatever reason n it embarrest him n now its all down hill from there, i dont think its you. If it was you he wouldnt be with you. i guess if u like each other enough youll work through it, maybe he can take viagra
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Speaking has been, burned, boiled, stabbed, had both feet broken, pulled my back muscles at times, though not all of these at one time of course I think we notice pain in our knees as most position require men to be on our moving their knees. I would either reccomend positions that do not require knee useage ie cowgirl.  Or imagine what sex would we be like with a hip or back injury.

Just a thought.
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