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One day old condom

Thanks for your all of your judgemental input!

I thought this site was a medical advice giver and not bunch of false judgers who seem to be so happy though end up in divorce court 6 months later.  Not only that but do the worst behind thier own back closed doors and belive that god will not see that nor the bad thoughts and judgements they pass on others without knowing the whole story.....thanks saints! Thanks for God sending you as his prophets to pass his word along like you guy do! RIGHT!  I guess if you guys were the saints and the best in the world you wouldn´t be on this web page and expressing your own concers and disturbances you experience.   Obviously something went wrong there too, right? Oh, I am sorry did I just slap you in the face with your own personal problems?
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546822 tn?1214962507
While sorry it was a negative experience your immaturity of your actions, your post and this thread does not serve you in receiving the advice you wanted.

As far as birth defects go I believe there would be no repercussions. The likelihood of your getting pregnant from your actions is slim to none.

I believe you need to discuss having children with your boyfriend possibly in the future.

Just an offbeat question but WHY were you washing a condom? Most people just dispose of them.
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I no what u mean about rude comments left.No body has any right to tell u that u should see a  psychologist or anything else.I read yr post and I had words to say about it to but I skipped it because I do feel that if I have to be rude about it why not just skip it then,nothing needs to be said.Just remember the next time u post something be ready for some people to attack,its not just u that got attacked on here there are many more.
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513175 tn?1222957502
Felix,
No one here is trying to be judgemental. ok, maybe some are, but you have to think about what you posted on here and you have to weigh the risks of posting something of that sort. what you did is very uncool. to your boyfriend and to a potential baby. this is a PUBLIC forum, so we are entitled to say whatever we feel is right...and i really dont think any of the posts were out of line. I mean really...what if you didnt want a kid, and your boyfriend did and he pretented to put on or intentionally damaged the condom and "knocked you up"....with how childish your post was and also this post shows me you COULD NOT handle a child. i was a parent and 19 and i could barely handle it. i was not ready. There are so many hidden expenses, and i am not only talking about money....time, energy, effort, knowledge, understanding, patience...that you dont seem to have. i mean really...you talk about these people on here "ending up in divorce court 6 months later", but look, your not even married...doesnt seem like you are even in a commited relationship with communication. obviously, if you are doing these kinds of things behind your bf's back. what does he think of all this? you need to understand: HE DOES NOT WANT A KID...maybe not ever. you need to open these lines of communication with him before you end up a single mother. i know many of them, and trust me, it is no fun. you did not see anyone here say we are saints, no one even implied that...you need to act like a grown up if your going to post grown up responses.
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456039 tn?1302660148
Whoah.... holy bitterness batman!

You asked a question, you got an honest response. Really what did you expect people to say? "Oh that is such a good idea... we should all attempt to get pregnant when our boyfriend doesnt want a kid... " I mean honestly Don't post a question if you are prepared for the honest answer..
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