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Pain after being fingered.
Hi,
I'm 19 years old and a virgin. I am in a serious relationship but we havn't had sex..we've just done other stuff.
Anyway, he fingered me for a while the other night and it was quite deep at times and sometimes he used up to three fingers. The day after i didn't feel any pain but i had the constant urge to pee even if my bladder wasn't full. So, i would pee and then it felt as if my muscles were still straining to get urine out...i can't really explain it but it hurt so bad.
It's so uncomfortable and i'm not really sure what to do... any ideas what this could be?
Thanks!
I'm 19 years old and a virgin. I am in a serious relationship but we havn't had sex..we've just done other stuff.
Anyway, he fingered me for a while the other night and it was quite deep at times and sometimes he used up to three fingers. The day after i didn't feel any pain but i had the constant urge to pee even if my bladder wasn't full. So, i would pee and then it felt as if my muscles were still straining to get urine out...i can't really explain it but it hurt so bad.
It's so uncomfortable and i'm not really sure what to do... any ideas what this could be?
Thanks!
As you feel uncomfortable when you pee it is likely that there may be some urinary infection.
Do make sure that your boyfriend has clean hands and short fingernails when he touches down below, because that can sometimes irritate the internal lining as well as transmit bacteria that can cause infections.
If the problem hasn't settled, then see your doctor and take a urine sample with you so that the doctor can do a urine sample test to find out if you have any bacterial infection.
In the meantime, make sure that you drink plenty of water (even though it feels uncomfortable to pee). 2-3 litres per day is recommended and more if you sweat or workout. The water helps to flush out any bacteria.
As a home remedy you can add a teaspoonful of Bicarbonate of Soda to a glassful of water and drink that. No more that 3 with 1 hour between each dose. Fresh lemon juice in water can be used instead of the Bicarb of Soda. What this does, is it neutralises the acidity of the urine so that you are not uncomfortable in the bladder and when you pee.
It is also a good idea to use a lubricating gel if needed.
Best wishes.
Do make sure that your boyfriend has clean hands and short fingernails when he touches down below, because that can sometimes irritate the internal lining as well as transmit bacteria that can cause infections.
If the problem hasn't settled, then see your doctor and take a urine sample with you so that the doctor can do a urine sample test to find out if you have any bacterial infection.
In the meantime, make sure that you drink plenty of water (even though it feels uncomfortable to pee). 2-3 litres per day is recommended and more if you sweat or workout. The water helps to flush out any bacteria.
As a home remedy you can add a teaspoonful of Bicarbonate of Soda to a glassful of water and drink that. No more that 3 with 1 hour between each dose. Fresh lemon juice in water can be used instead of the Bicarb of Soda. What this does, is it neutralises the acidity of the urine so that you are not uncomfortable in the bladder and when you pee.
It is also a good idea to use a lubricating gel if needed.
Best wishes.
You are a life saver! I thought there was something really wrong, i shall keep an eye on it anyways...thankyou so much!
Hi Lizzy, sounds like you have picked up a bladder infection, this mean somebody's b/f need not have clean hands, the best advice would be get off to your doctor, tell him/her what you have been doing, best to be straight with him/her, should give you some antibiotics to clear it up.
Tell him, next time to go and wash his hands, just remember safe sex also means being clean.
Do hope this helps you.
Good Luck
Tell him, next time to go and wash his hands, just remember safe sex also means being clean.
Do hope this helps you.
Good Luck
He probably broke your hymen, which would account for the urination issue, and on top of that, you two got rough with it, so you're sore from that, too. If youcontinue to feel uncomfortable for longer than afew days, please see your doctor. Blessings - Blu
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