I don't know where you got your numbers from but 2 out of 3 people do not have genital herpes. It is a common STD but not to the ratio you have put it at.
I have this same problen and have not been able to go to a doctor as i do not have one i feel comfortable with. If you go any answers please let me know!
I have also heard the allergy thing too. I think when I go to the gyno again I will ask!
Yes, I would talk to your ob/gyn. I've heard of cases of women being "allergic" to their men's semen. I'm no doctor but that's something worth checking out.
Jim
Never heard of it. Maybe you should talk to your ob/gyn.