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Was my masturbation technique wrong?

1. Do u hold the PC muscle, the one u use to stop urine flow and to hold erection/ejaculation? Or do u just hold it when u r about to ejaculate?

2. Are there any bad effects holding it for the whole masturbation session? My penis wont erect as big as it could if i do this, maybe cuz the blood flow is held. And i had been doing this for years (from 14 to 19 y/o) with these only 70% quality erections, would it cause my penis to shrink/stunt penis growth? Do our penises grow during our teen years cuz of the hard 100% erections?

So my fapping technique was:

(1)flaccid
(2)hold PC muscle tightly-stroke with hand
(3)after seconds, release it
(4)then, it goes a little erect
(5)after that, hold the PC muscle again
(6)release the muscle and it goes a little bit more erect
(7)so on..so on..from (2) to (6) until i ejaculate

The thing was, i forced it to ejaculate it in 1 minutes
only everyday without achieving full erections and ive been doing it for 5 years, from 14 to 15 y/o. I dunno, when i did that 'hold and release', i cummed fast.

Recently, i noticed my technique was wrong. So, i start jerking off without holding it and the sensation was great. I also last very longggg. Now, i know why jerking off has been boring these years.

But, did i stunt my penis growth by not achieving full erections all the time?

Also, the penis has shrunk, i measured. It even should have grown these years, rather than shrinking. It is now thinner, not that my palm becomes bigger, really.
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139792 tn?1498585650
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An expert gives the following tips for proper masturbation. Each tip has a practical and scientific basis.Do not use dry hand, use lubricated one; keep your perineum relaxed; Do not stop breathing;Do not over visualize sexual scene.Do not hurry;Do not masturbate when excessively aroused.Empty your bladder before you masturbate.Do not ony jerk, do thrusting as well.
If you do deep abdominal breathing, your urge to masturbate will be reduced. You may do satkriya for building up sexual strength. You may do kegel exercise to control ejaculation. Male deer exercise is very good for sexual disorder. Poole those words for their websites.When you are on the verge of ejaculation, slow down mb and pick up again when your have recover yor urge. do this three times without ejaculating. This method teaches your brain to delay ejaculation. This will help you while you do intercourse.
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Masturbation techniques can sometimes have the ability to morph the shape of the penis, but only really in extreme circumstances.

It is true, the PC muscle can change the feel and speed of an orgasm; in women, the PC muscle is vital for orgasm and can actually been see moving visably during an intense orgasm.  

I would try not to refer to yout masturbation technqiues as 'wrong', really it just comes down to what feels better for you - there is no right or wrong,

I doubt very much you stunted the growth your penis, and with regards to size, vigourous masturbation cannot really change the size of your penis (smaller).  You penis usually grows rapidly from the age of 11-18, and any sexual activity during this period has absolutely no effect on the it's growth. Its fairly common for the penis to shrink throughout life, and like you say, your hands become bigger after your penis has stopped growing, so that can create the illusion that it has shrunk.

It's good that your experimenting and finding new techniques, though.

Hope this helps,

Adam
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