Red & Itchy, after oral sex?

[ls1992]

I'm a 17 year old male who has recently been involved with a new girl. We were having oral sex 3 days ago (for the 2nd time) she was (sorry for lack of technical term) giving me a hand-job and fellatio, and everything was fine, apart from some pain on my penis head which when i looked i thought was from the palm of her hand constantly rubbing one spot of it. However i left it as i didn't want to spoil the mood.

So, the next day i woke up and noticed my penis head had some skin missing, kind of like friction burn, i put it down to the day before and thought in a few days it'l be fine (it was only a small amount and it was on the same spot her palm was). However since then the head has gotten quite red and started itching. To the point where today i have woken up rather early in discomfort. I havn't changed any soaps and i don't think my washing powder has changed, and it only happened after the oral sex 3 days ago, however the first time we did it about a week before everything was fine.

oh, one thing i noticed which is really weird is that the tip of my head isn't red, only the part that is covered by my foreskin, if this changes anything i don't know.

Any help/advice would be much appreciated.

[ls1992]

Hey thanks for the comment :) well good news is I'm all better now lol. so panic over xD i just used Sudocrem everyday over the red/itchy area and put some gause over the burn and it quickly stopped itching, swelling went down, and now the skin has grown back. So I'm guessing it was just some kind of slight infection or just an irritation from the burn that cause it all. I doubt it was allergies, as far as I know I'm not allergic to anything and that was the 2nd time I'd done that with this girl, and I was fine before.

But thanks again, and if anyone else has the same kind of problem, there's your solution, Sudocrem and gause :)

[katepotate4]

Doesn't oober apply, just a thought

[katepotate4]

Sounds not fun, sorry to hear about this all happening to you! One of my very best guy friends has mentioned to me that he has allergic reactions to some womens' saliva... And he's also uncircumcised... If any of that applies I don't know, but it is another less scary option? Good luck!!

[ls1992]

hi, thanks for the reply. No i've never been tested before for STD's and this girl does have a boyfriend i'm sad to say, so chances are she has been active with him between my seeing her. I told her about what's going on as soon as i noticed it but am yet to ask if she has anything, but chances are she'll just say she hasn't right? I mean if she knows she has something she would have told me when i mentioned it...

I did use some Sudocrem yesterday evening and again this morning and it does seem to have taken a lot of the itching away and also some of the redness, i also noticed some weeping from the 'burn' so i put some gause over it, hopefully this helps also. Yes if the problem doesn't get any better i will defiantly book in with my doctor and see what's what.

My concern at the moment is with these little lumps, almost like blisters that appeared on the 'brun' i'm hoping they are part of the healing process and not another symptom :\

Thank you again though :)

[Leah71187]

first of all, were you tested for std's before you started seeing this girl? and are you completely positive that you are the only one she is with currently. she could be active with other males in between seeing you. in which case, she could have contracted something between the first time you did this and this time. i would be straight up with her and ask if she is seeing anyone else. tell her the situation and that your concerned that she may have passed something to you. if the swelling doesn't go down in a day or two, definitely see a doc. it also could just be friction burn and the uncomfortable pain may be the skin trying to recover. Vaseline or an anti-itch cream may help. i would definitely stop at a planned parenthood location if i were you and get a test done just in case. that way even if you dont have an std, you will be able to pin point later on in life if you contract one who may have given it to you. i cant stress any more how important it is to get tested after each different partner you have. the more often you get tested, the sooner treatment may get started and the easier it will be to figure out who it came from so you can inform them of it so they dont pass it on or may take precautions to keep it from spreading to others. good luck!!

[ls1992]

small update: It seems my foreskin is beginning to swell slightly which is kinda making the itching problem worse i think. And also inside the area that some skin on the head is missing there are two very small 'lumps' i'll call them at the moment, they are very small but are defiantly there.

thanks