Ok so I've been with my fiance for 16 months. Before him I was single for 3 yrs. My question is: How can I have an Orgasm?? He the PERFECT lover I mean I've never felt so good while having sex in my 16 yrs of having sex. He makes me extra extra wet as well as very relaxed and comfortable while we're making love. The main issue is it takes me 45 minutes to *** but if I'm rubbing my clit while he's making love to me I *** within 10 minutes. I've never experienced an orgasm and my bestfriend told me she used some pills to help her is that safe and do they work? Thanks