Size of penis jokes

[Trevorlee]

I am a 15 year old black guy, well endowed for my age, we have my female cousin staying with us who walked in on me while I was having a pee early in the morning, she laughed out loud at me because she could see my penis pointing and the fact I couldn't stop. She is 2 years older than me and since then she keeps making comments about how often I go, the other night she locked my bedroom door from the outside, I found out when I got up, everyone had gone to work, she was downstairs, 7.30am so I needed the bathroom quite badly but of course I was locked in. To my horror she went out so I had to lie in agony cross legged till lunchtime, I finally got to go about 1pm and she stood outside the bathroom laughing because I was going for so long and crying in pain!  My problem now is I can't hold it at all since that unbearable incident and have to take a 2 litre bottle to bed so I can go immediately. Could this be a temporary problem from the strain, I also find it difficult to keep an erection. I haven't told anyone, I'm too embarrassed.

[Trevorlee]

Thank you every one, I really appreciate your advice.

I have since threatened to tell my dad what she did if she continues and so far she has ignored me, good, I had a uti which is clearing.

Again, thank you.

[cathylee1]

lol-!

[NOHARD]

Hi Trevor, You could try kegels, these stengthen thr pelvic floor, and will also srengthen your PC muscle, all conected, just go to pegym on there look for kegels exersice, and seejust how you get on.
Good Luck

[AnnieBrooke]

The other thing is, I would at least write what happened and send it to someone you trust.  She sounds just off balance enough to claim you tried something, if you were to react angrily to her.  

Don't let her see that she is getting to you.  She's probably getting a kick out of imagining your worry and concern.  If she jeers at you again, say (in a cheerful way) "Women want it, men fear it."  That might shut her up.

[AnnieBrooke]

Does she have to live with you?  She sounds almost mentally unbalanced.

[AnnieBrooke]

Look at her and say, "Definitely penis envy, just like Freud said.  Let me know when you are ready to control your jealousy like an adult."

In the meantime, see your doctor.  You were very considerate to lie there until 1 pm, I would have peed out the window by then.  

She should never lock you in and leave, what if there had been a fire?  You don't need to tell anyone about your cousin taunting you about your penis, but you do need to tell someone that she locked you in your room and went out.  She sounds a little bit crazy, and should not be able to do that again even if it means taking out the lock.

[Caryopteris]

That doesn't make any sense to me.  You could have used a sink or gone outside, right?  

A nerve is probably inflamed.  You could have a urinary tract infection.  Lock the door.  If you don't have a lock, get one.  If she continues to harrass you, pee in her things.