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So me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for a year. They sex has alwaysss been great. But this week I'm visiting him because right now we live in separate county's and we've had sex every night. But in the last two night we've had sex a total of 3 times. But he can't stay hard these 3 times?! Have we had sex too much? I know he's even extremely stressed and he does drink a lot but he has out while relationship. What is causing this?? It makes me feel like he's not into me anymore even tho he's constantly telling me how good I feel and what not. I haven't asked him about this I don't want to embarrass him.
Also I'd like to add he is 29 just turned it. And I'm not really worried if this is permanent I'd still love him just as much. Sex isn't a big thing to me like that. Like you said I see a lot more about our relationship than just that.
When that happens I do preform oral on him for a little then when he gets it back up we start again but once he just had me finish him that way after I was able to finish. But we always do some foreplay before sex. Like I said this only happened 3 times after a lot of sex that week.
The first time it happened we only had sex once that day and it was in a car supper hot and uncomfortable so I thought that was the reason but the next day we did it again twice and happened both times . He always comes onto me and I don't pressure him into anything. Like I said he always comes onto me really horny but then a few minted later he has to stop for a little then start again.
Try a little oral Katie, it sure couldn't hurt, and he might reciprocate as well. A little more foreplay could go a long way.
A lot of men cannot have sex more than once in a day, let alone 3 times.
As he drinks a lot, that can make him unable to "perform" and also if he is stressed.
Perhaps you should have some days without sex and allow him to make the first move. If he is not able to do it, don't make a big issue out of it. Men feel embarrassed if they cannot perform, but sometimes you just have to accept that and not make him feel bad about it.
As we age, the libido can lessen.
There is more to a loving relationship than just having sex.
As he drinks a lot, that can make him unable to "perform" and also if he is stressed.
Perhaps you should have some days without sex and allow him to make the first move. If he is not able to do it, don't make a big issue out of it. Men feel embarrassed if they cannot perform, but sometimes you just have to accept that and not make him feel bad about it.
As we age, the libido can lessen.
There is more to a loving relationship than just having sex.
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