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Vibrator for wife , need femele advice

I would like advice from women with experience with vibrators ( types and techniques )
E.D. is an issue in our sex life . I don't last like I used to . I'm not having success with a vibrator like I thought I would . To post an answer on the form is OK , but if you would like more details or wish to be more discrete and confidential , private messages may be better .
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My wife , definitely is not the aggressor in our sex life .She's hard to figure out .At times we are affectionate and hopeful , get to bed , a hug and "I love you " is as for as I get . Other times She's been really stressed in the evening and I figure its hopeless .and be surprised to succeed .
I 'v have been enjoying our conversation , but I was thinking of taking it to " private message " and let this vibrator topic die .being it's a discussion on ED .  
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332074 tn?1229560525
Cealsis is good for up to 36 hours, so there is not urge to use it before you lose it. It takes about 30 mins to kick in so you can have plenty of time for forplay. At our age we generally know when we are going to have sex so we don't worry about it. If we decide we are going to be spontainest, he just takes it when we first start and it kicks in in plenty of time. Like I said though he can get an hold a good erection on his own, but with age comes times when it doesn't get as hard as it used too so it is great backup.
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Thanks for the info , I've herd you can get " dependent " , So I was concerned about trying ED drugs . I had some other questions . how long does it take celasis to kick in ? Do you have enough time to take it the beginning of foreplay , or do you have to plan ahead of time ? I can plan I wife want to have sex , however . to predict when my wife is ready isn't as easy .
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Thanks for the info , I've herd you can get " dependent " , So I was concerned about trying ED drugs . I had some other questions . how long does it take celasis to kick in ? Do you have enough time to take it the beginning of foreplay , or do you have to plan ahead of time ? I can plan I wife want to have sex , however . to predict when my wife is ready isn't as easy .
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246464 tn?1249452147
My Wife LOVEs the Rabbit. Go to adameve.com and type in -Rabbit- in the search area, get a mid level one, you don't need a $100 one but stay away from the cheapies, and have fun!
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332074 tn?1229560525
I totally understand. Just for the record let me tell you that my husband does use it as I said, but not all the time. The only time he wants to have what I call a marathon. So if at some point you decide to try it, I just wanted to let you know that it was stop you from having your own erections.
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I'm a little worried about starting ED drugs to early , if I can get by without them .I wouldn't want my erection to depend on a pill , then if I stop the medicine , I wouldn't have none at all . I'm usually OK , but sometimes I don't last like I would like to .
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332074 tn?1229560525
I am seconding the rabbit. But I might also suggest that you see your doctor about the ED. My husband uses celasis and I gotta tell you, it works like a charm. I don't really need the toys but I say what the heck.
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381551 tn?1208754043
I recommend something you guys can use together.  My fiance and I bought a little thing called a bullet and it has this thing you pull over it that looks like a rabbit.  Its the first one I've ever owned and we are really happy with it.  It is a clit vibrator. The great thing is it is something he can use on me, we can use together, or I can use myself.  He said it feels good on him too.   At least that way you're using it together and she doesn't have to feel awkward while she uses it on her own. Good luck!  
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we actually went to an adult store and asked all those questions to the sales lady in the store she was very helpful.  
we were very hesitant at first and irt took a long time to work up the courage to do it but she was a professional salesperson and handled us in the same way as my DH who sells white goods would handle a washing machine sale or dishwasher sale.
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393299 tn?1216995370
the rabbit all the way.
it rotates inside you
and the little rabbit head vibrates right on the clit
its basically amazing!
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