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Virginity
I lost my virginity in my last relationship, Now i am getting married and am worried tat my husband will get to know. Is there any way to regain Virginity . Please advice.
I suspect Anny isn't from this country. "Anny" isn't the typical American spelling for the name and there is no New York, PA--if she lives in York, PA, I still think she's from another country, where virginity is a must for some reason. That would explain why she is so worried about not being a virgin for marriage at age 26, not bleeding the first time with her husband to somehow prove she was a virgin, and the fact that she will likely be grilled when she doesn't bleed or doesn't seem, for whatever reason, like a virgin.
Surely you know that you can't regain your virginity. So it sounds like you simply need to convince your husband-to-be that you have not had sex before even though you have.
While I can't pretend to understand why you do this in your culture or the consequences if you are not a virgin (does that mean your husband will leave you or you will never be married or disowned by your family if you admit to it?), but I once heard that a woman can be a virgin many times over if she's a good enough actor. I do not recommend lying to someone you're planning to spend the rest of your life with, but it sounds like you intend to do that regardless, if you were hoping to somehow make yourself physically SEEM like a virgin again. If not coming clean about it is not an option in your mind, then acting nervous and scared and like you have no idea what you're doing on your wedding night is the only way to attempt to deceive your husband into believing you are a virgin when you are not and never will be again.
Surely you know that you can't regain your virginity. So it sounds like you simply need to convince your husband-to-be that you have not had sex before even though you have.
While I can't pretend to understand why you do this in your culture or the consequences if you are not a virgin (does that mean your husband will leave you or you will never be married or disowned by your family if you admit to it?), but I once heard that a woman can be a virgin many times over if she's a good enough actor. I do not recommend lying to someone you're planning to spend the rest of your life with, but it sounds like you intend to do that regardless, if you were hoping to somehow make yourself physically SEEM like a virgin again. If not coming clean about it is not an option in your mind, then acting nervous and scared and like you have no idea what you're doing on your wedding night is the only way to attempt to deceive your husband into believing you are a virgin when you are not and never will be again.
Anny? Are you serious? Do you know what virginity is? In text terms it means untouched, pure. As for a female it describes your hymen which streches across your vagina with a small opening for drainage. The average male will break this upon full insertion of his erection. Unless your boyfriend had a penis 1" wide and 2" long, you are no longer a virgin and you are only a virgin once. If your boyfriend was incredible small, you may still technically be a virgin.
Besides all of this, you sound very knieve and like a very nice girl. If you feel you made a mistake with that boyfriend then thats what it was, a mistake, means your human.
Your future husband needs not to know, if he insists theres something wrong with him, if he loves you dearly, it wont matter to him.
If the other boyfriend was a mistake, then if you told your husband he is the first you ever truely made love too, that would not be a lie.
I seriously question why your Mother, Aunt, Grandma or a Sister? never discussed this with you upon growing up??
If you really need to know your Doctor can tell you with one quick look.
Besides all of this, you sound very knieve and like a very nice girl. If you feel you made a mistake with that boyfriend then thats what it was, a mistake, means your human.
Your future husband needs not to know, if he insists theres something wrong with him, if he loves you dearly, it wont matter to him.
If the other boyfriend was a mistake, then if you told your husband he is the first you ever truely made love too, that would not be a lie.
I seriously question why your Mother, Aunt, Grandma or a Sister? never discussed this with you upon growing up??
If you really need to know your Doctor can tell you with one quick look.
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