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Weird Orgasm... :0S
Well, I've got quite a few sex issues, but this one has been a long time coming.
It's a long story... Here goes.
When I was six or seven (yes, I'm sure it was one of those ages) I would lay on my stomach, wrap a bed sheet around my waist and pull in opposite directions until it was tight against my waist and hips. I didn't know why it felt good at the time, but it helped me get to sleep. I remember thinking about how weird it was and feeling so guilty for doing something that felt so good that I apologized to my father for doing it. Anyway, it was only a few years ago that I found out I was actually having orgasms when I did this. Up until that point, I thought I was just incapable. I tried everything in junior high to get off, like shower heads and fingers and all sorts of things, but no form of insertion did anything for me. In fact, I don't have to touch myself at all. I just need a blanket, bed sheet, or whatever. In addition, I've never gotten off, even remotely, on sex with someone else. In fact, I'm not fond of it much at all. I know this is weird, but is this common?
It's a long story... Here goes.
When I was six or seven (yes, I'm sure it was one of those ages) I would lay on my stomach, wrap a bed sheet around my waist and pull in opposite directions until it was tight against my waist and hips. I didn't know why it felt good at the time, but it helped me get to sleep. I remember thinking about how weird it was and feeling so guilty for doing something that felt so good that I apologized to my father for doing it. Anyway, it was only a few years ago that I found out I was actually having orgasms when I did this. Up until that point, I thought I was just incapable. I tried everything in junior high to get off, like shower heads and fingers and all sorts of things, but no form of insertion did anything for me. In fact, I don't have to touch myself at all. I just need a blanket, bed sheet, or whatever. In addition, I've never gotten off, even remotely, on sex with someone else. In fact, I'm not fond of it much at all. I know this is weird, but is this common?
What's probably happening is that the blanket provides the right motion and pressure to stimulate your clitoris and lead you to orgasm. And if it makes you orgasm, go for it!
Most women do not have orgasms from insertion alone (and by "most," I mean practically all).
Personally, I always found that being on my stomach with my hand underneath me got me off, and, yes, I learned about this at a very early age--too young to know what an "orgasm" was (maybe 4 or 5). Funny how you can find orgasms when you're not even looking for them!
If you want to, you can use your established method of orgasm as a building point. Figure out what the blanket is doing to stimulate you, then see if you can replicate this motion with your hands. Then see if you can also achieve orgasm in different positions, such as on your back. Give yourself plenty of time to experiment, and take it at your own pace.
And if those juuuuust don't work the same, you can always go back to the tried and true standby. ;)
Most women do not have orgasms from insertion alone (and by "most," I mean practically all).
Personally, I always found that being on my stomach with my hand underneath me got me off, and, yes, I learned about this at a very early age--too young to know what an "orgasm" was (maybe 4 or 5). Funny how you can find orgasms when you're not even looking for them!
If you want to, you can use your established method of orgasm as a building point. Figure out what the blanket is doing to stimulate you, then see if you can replicate this motion with your hands. Then see if you can also achieve orgasm in different positions, such as on your back. Give yourself plenty of time to experiment, and take it at your own pace.
And if those juuuuust don't work the same, you can always go back to the tried and true standby. ;)
this could be a blanket fixation. I would say you could talk to a pshycologist about the problems but try to do this yourself first and see if it does anything for you I mean more then once try it often and seen what happens. some people have fixations, this could be one, your fixation with your blanket.
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