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Why don't I like sex?
Is it wrong that I don't like it? I don't get sad about it, on the contrary, I hate having sex, but, is this normal?
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well no i don't think you should be able to enjoy it with just anyone! then it wouldn't mean anything to you it would be like ok next anyone will do? but if you not looking for that special someone are you happy with just anyone? Everyone' different i take it you've gone through all the questions as to why you don't enjoy it and tried to answer them all, so really it's probably just who you are everyone is programmed differently so to speak! I don't think it's a reason just to leave you though not if in every other aspect they really like you
Many people feel disgusted by different biological functions. I don't see anything hostile in feeling disgusted by something. It's just so sad, I mean, girls get tired I guess, and it's sad. Because I love making out, a lot,and I love touching and feeling, but, they all need that other thing,and I don't want to give it, so they leave.
"Why is sex as important as breathing for people?"
Reasons vary... in my case, it makes me feel wanted; it makes me feel bonded with the man in my life; and it makes me feel alive. But, we're not all wired the same way... and, some people are asexual and don't seem to need or want sex. I see nothing weird or wrong with that!
However, you say that it "disgusts" you and, that's a bit of a hostile term for a biological function. I'm wondering if there's a past experience that's made you feel this way.
Reasons vary... in my case, it makes me feel wanted; it makes me feel bonded with the man in my life; and it makes me feel alive. But, we're not all wired the same way... and, some people are asexual and don't seem to need or want sex. I see nothing weird or wrong with that!
However, you say that it "disgusts" you and, that's a bit of a hostile term for a biological function. I'm wondering if there's a past experience that's made you feel this way.
That's the thing, I am not looking for "that special person", I should be able to enjoy it with anyone. I mean, I don't want it, but most people think it's weird and I wanna know why.
Why is sex as important as breathing for people?
Why is sex as important as breathing for people?
everyone to there own i say! if you've no interest that fair enough, everyone has different interests after all. maybe you just haven't enjoyed it up to now cause it hasn't been with that special person you looking for i'm sure you'll enjoy it some day :)
It's just not interesting to me. It kinda disgustes me, too, but mostly it's uninteresting.
And why is it "not normal" not to like it? :-)
And why is it "not normal" not to like it? :-)
It completely depends on the reason you hate it, or don't like it. If it has to do with a low sex drive, it isn't normal. This is usually caused by a low amount of hormones, or a unbalance with them. If this is not the case, it could be caused by a tramatic event in your life and you simply have no interest in it. This is not normal either, and should involve counseling of some sort, just to figure out the issue. If it has to do with being with partners that do not satisfy you, you may need to try experimenting a bit more and finding out exactly what you enjoy. I am not sure what the reason may be, but it doesn't seem "normal" not to be interested in it if you are an adult.
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