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Why dont i get wet as much!

I am 22 yrs old and I been with my boyfriend for 8 yrs we've had problems here and there but I love him to death and he does too... he gets horney all the time with me no matter what.. but i think i am the problem because i cant get wet i may have an orgasim once a week maybe... but he tells me he isnt pleasured enough when i dont come, but i believe its because i dont get horney quick or at all. I feel like little simple things just turm me off for example if he is touching me and i feel maybe a sharp nail it just turns me off. IS this normal for my age and my relationship?
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139792 tn?1498585650
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Google Deer exercise for man and deer exercise for woman. If both of you do there exercises you both will enjyou full body orgasm. These are taoist exercises. the effect will be felt within a fortnight. After that you may add kegel exercise. You may try to find the hot spot in center of his perineum-little deeper. If you can find this spot and press it when he is on the verge of ejaculation, he will have full blown orgasm.Both of you will gain immensely if your do deer exercise.
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You need to find forplay that you enjoy that turns you on. Forplay is a key role into getting sexual arroused and ready to orgasm a little before you start the deed.
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u r too young to be turned off to sex. sex is a beautiful part of our life and especially when you are enjoying it in love.

Foreplay is very important before sex. our bodies are not like machine to turn the button ON and OFF.

When u kiss, hug, and especially oral, it makes ur body sensitive and u start getting climax, talk to ur bf about cutting his nails, oral sex, different sex positions, sex toys,  foreplay, intimacy etc etc.

we have a saying "Men needs a place women needs a reason".

Enjoy ur sex life and never ever keep things inside u. always communicate with ur partner. This is the key for success.

Good Luck
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