anal sex

[Momo1409]

Ok this is only for ppl willing to give me advice! I DO NOT wanna hear ppl telling me not to do it! Its my choice. And I've made up my mind I'm looking for advice NOT ridicual! Thank you.


Now on to the question. I plan to one day in the near future to have anal sex with my bf. I refuse unless he uses lube and a condom. I'm just curious bout some of your guys experiences? What to expect ect.

Pls again its my choice.

[jeninky30]

This is something that my husband and I do sometimes.  Not on a daily basis or anything but like once every couple of months.  It does hurt if you try to rush or go to far to fast.  But I done correctly, you can enjoy it.  If you would like, you can messge me for more advice on this topic.

[Momo1409]

Thank you! I appreciate the advice! :)

[TNexperience]

it can be arousing if you are well lubricated, have already had an orgasm, he does it slowly, most of all- you have a vibrator to hold on your clitoris.

[tomo01]

Iam a lad and i hope your boyfriend reads this, there is nothing pleasurable about this mate.  When i did this i felt just as bad as my girlfriend, its tight and uncomfortable, it makes you a paranoid and the fact i could hear my girlfriend screeching in pain made me feel awful tbh, i was very protective over her and loved her very much and hurting her for my pleasure was something i could not go through again. she asked me if i wanted to do it again a few weeks later and i said no cos i didnt want to see her cry or in pain again. im male teenager and im at my peak of hornyness but this seriously is not something i would suggest for fun for either of you.

[Hunny1986]

Momo, everytime I have anal sex with my fionce I lie on my stomach with legs pointing down (like stand up position but laying down) and that is the position that I feel no pain. It actually feels good to me and you can also squeeze your buttcheeks so your bf can get even more pleasure out of it. But make sure there is plenty of lube and if he cums inside of you, expect a little bit of a mess afterwords.LOL Excuse me for being upfront and blunt about this but I am pretty comfortable with my sexuality and am willing to help anytime... its like a mini enema, so make sure you clean up afterwords. I hope this helps and good for you for experimenting... it will keep the spark in your relationship alive!

[Momo1409]

Actually that was one of the condtions of him getting anal sex.

[Gotmoxy]

Momo, when you say he does alot of sexual things for you, do those sexual things cause him any pain? I would guess, not. I'm pretty sure that you can or have matched anything he's done for you. He's done oral, you've done oral, etc..  My bf really wants me to do anal also. I said to him "Ok let me stick a dildo in your a s s, then." He said "No way! That would hurt! And it's unnatural!" I said, "My point exactly." My a s s wasn't built for a penis. It was built for the same reasons yours was." :)

[penswriter]

Like the others have said...it hurts. Tremendously. I was going to try with dh and that was just a big ol' no.

[sweetpea03]

I agree with iam1butterfly, be prepared for a lot of pain. My boyfriend had accidentally gone in the back door for a small amount of time and not that far in and I was in excruciating pain for the next couple hours. Nothing I want to experience again. Don't expect it to be real great. Any friend that I know who has tried it, has hated it. Do try to "empty" yourself out, a friend had a lot of poo when she did it. Not fun.

[Momo1409]

Thank you guys. It is for him. Its something he's wanted to do for along time. And he does a lot of thing sexually for me. I feel he deserves something to. But thank you!

I'm very thankful u were all willing to give me advice. :)

[rachel474]

I've done it a few times with my boyfriend.... make sure you're in the right position also - one of my friends can only do it lying on her back (so kind of missionary...) whereas I feel like I'm gonna pass out from the pain like that! Whereas leaning over the end of the bed is fine for me, enjoyable really :)

Just make sure you are RELAXED and lubricated. Get him to rub the bottom of your back and really relax yourself as he slowly enters. He does not need all of it in to be pleasurable, so if you can only handle half of him then that is fine. And make sure you "empty" yourself out before hand - because if you don't and worry about having an accident you will tense up and it will be so much more painful.

One last tip - get tipsy it will relax you even more!

Good luck ;)

[Gotmoxy]

I agree with iam1butterfly. It is painful and you will get no pleasure out of it. You will be sore for the next couple of days. Your bf will be the only one out of the two of you enjoying himself. So, basically you are just doing this for him. Don't get me wrong. Some girls end up liking it after a while, but most won't.

[Momo1409]

Lol. U didn't have to repeat. I was just making sure I got it in the right forum. I was having a blonde moment.

[iam1butterfly]

* I answered this in another forum... but, I'll repeat it here.
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"what to expect," PAIN... and, lots of it! This could very well be the most excruciating and horrifically painful experience that you may ever have!

advice:
1. make sure that you're "cleaned out" with little or no residual fecal matter inside of you.
2. if you're also going to have intercourse, do so prior... not after anal penetration.
3. use copious amounts of lube.
4. have him penetrate you slowly and not all the way in... at least for the first few attempts.
5. have a clean towel or sterile pad handy in order to wipe off the blood.
5. have a pack of crushed ice on hand to mitigate the intense pain.
6. be prepared for a lot of soreness for the few days following penetration.
5. and, have an agreement with him that, if at any point during penetration, you decide that you want him to stop... he must stop!

good luck.