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So after my girlfriend started using ben wa balls she hasnt been able to orgasim from sex. She hasnt really had a problem with it before. She still cums from oral sex but other than that she says intercourse doesnt feel the same. Could it be that she over worked he kegal muscle from using the balls to much. SHe hasnt used them in a couple of days and is still having issues. Is the anything we could do or try to make it better?
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I'm his gf. And I do orgasim from intercourse. I don't have a problem there. It's I started using Ben wa balls to get a bit tighter and now I'm having issues organiming from intercourse. So I don't need a piercing or toy.
I would like to know if the possibility of over exerting your kegal muscles can cause this. And if so does that mean not using do the Ben wa balls can fix it.
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well there are a few things
1) I didn't have my first vaginal orgasm till I was 22
70% of women can't have them I had been having sex since my early teens
what really made the difference? I got my hood pierced with what's called a VHC its a vertical bar priced on the clitoral hood now I have had 40 tops in a session. Believe it or not its one of the safer piercing as you don't need an experienced piercer to do the job. I would just look up a reputable store though healing time is bout two weeks (but really form the spectrum of things) a belly ring takes 8 months to heal and stealizing it hurt more than the piercing itself. Another thing I can turn you over to is a violet wand.
what it does is this it uses Electricity to contact her muscles when you rub it sgsinst her until she climaxes. There is a kind of sex toy out there that's similar it is inserted inside and uses Electricity to stimulate the muscles to caus her to squeeze on the inside although I myself have never tried it and I go off the recommendations of others as the first two options I were told were highly effective.
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