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My Best Friend's Dilemma

My best friend confided in me by telling me something that has me somewhat worried for her. Her and her husband tried to have a second child for over 8 years, failing. Three months into her having an affair, she got pregnant. Which made us think that the problem was with her husband, and not her. Recently, she has noticed that her husband's ejaculation has a foul odor. After sex, she discharges for days and she said the discharge smells terrible, just like his ***. She told me that they both have noticed that he has white patches developing in his pelvic region. I was trying to find information online during our last conversation, but the only thing I could find was about low sperm count or infections. Is there anything that comes to mind when you hear these symptoms, foul smelling ***, white patches on pelvic region, possible infertility? He's been defensive when she has tried to talk to him. And her baby may not be his, so although she wants to know if something might be wrong with her husband, she's scared to push the issue, if he finds out he is not fertile, he will know that the baby is not his. I know it sounds like a soap opera, but I'm actually worried for the both of them.
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Sounds like the clap n if he has it she for sure has it. N ima tell u when she has the baby it will have health problem I had it n didn't know n my daughter waa born she had an ASD hole n her heart n white massive stuff in her lungs so.. also if she ganna cheat why would she not use protection that is just retarded n who know her hubby could of got it from her I had no signs but my hubby did so she has a real problem but might just be karma cuz she cheated so!!
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Yes she is in a catch-22 situation. If she insists on her husband's treatment,she will be exposed and if her husband is not treated, she will get infected eventually .She requires an expert guidance to extricate from such a situation.
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She needs to see a Dr and make a decision on if she wants to be married with him anymore since she has decided to cheat on him.
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