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have never finished...

im a 23 yo male. i suffer from anxiety but i've had this problem since i was 14!
i've been masterbating since 12, lost my virginity at 14 and i've been with many women over the year without being in a real relationship with them longer than 6 months. i never thought much about this problem until now because im getting to the age of starting a family. but i can not finish during penis/vaginal sex, only masterbation, manual stimulation, and oral and it takes ATLEAST 45mins to alittle over an hour to get off this way.
just the thought of women turn me on so i know homosexuality aint an issue.
it seems like i never even get close! i just dont understand it, i even talk to my psych about it and they dont think its a psychological problem.
i cant tell you how many relationships ive lost because the women feels insecure to the fact she aint good enough for me.

any help?
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Try now masturbation just plain sex with your girlfriend.
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The problem is in your head! try prolonging foreplay you're hang-up on masturebating
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