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how far could anal sex be safe?
i and my partner think of having anal sex. i haven't had this type os sex before. i read that this kind of sex causes infections and there is a probability of getting pregnant. my partner doesn't like condoms and doesn't prefer lubricants. i believe the absence of such items might cause problems, i mean health problems. how can i decrease the risks and how to make it unpainful as much as possible? are there any tips regarding eating certain food before anal sex?
I always wanted to try this with my other, however both have to agree to it. You are exactly right, it's an exist not an entrance. Most bedrooms are NOT a porn movie. Puting a penis up the anus is not really good for oral sex a few minutes later...rips and damage is only half the problem. The lining between the vaginal wall and the anus is very thin and get damaged easliy. Or so I've been told. ;>O
I agree with you ilovemykidz, tearing and damage that can have long term effects and unfortunately, not everyone practices proper hygene and definately from body waste.
your right everyone has the right to choose which way they get it.. all i did my post my opinion just like u did!!!!
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Best Answer: Anal sex can cause tearing or damage to the anal tissues.
Women can get a prolapse uterus that doesn't mean we stop having vaginal sex just in case.I'm not for or against anal sex,I've had it once didn't particularly like it so I haven't had it again,but people have a right to choose.As for bacteria it all comes down to proper hygeine afterwards.
It was just an awful and very painful experience for me the first and last time. I actually bleed and my opinion is that the penis was not meant to be put up the anus. It's just not natural. Anus is for our body's waste not intercouse and can lead to scarring, infections and bacteria's that can be spread to the vagina. Sorry, just my own personal opinion.
actually it is common knowledge that a lot of homosexuals who endulge in anal sex have prolapses, look around the internet it is everwhere & I sure as hell wouldn't risk it & one day find my bowel hanging out my butt
There are a lot of gay men in the world and I'm sure they don't have problems controlling their bowels,Okay not everyone agrees with homosexuality but I'm sure if there were bowel problems it would be common knowledge
anal sex is not good for you... it may feel good but that is a muscle and if u think about it what happens when u constatly try to put somthing where is dosnt fit, eventually its ganna stretch.. and if it does your ganna have problems controlling your bowels!!
dosnt sound like a sacrifice id be willing to make just so my partner didnt have to wear a condom!!
dosnt sound like a sacrifice id be willing to make just so my partner didnt have to wear a condom!!
As psyvamp says, anal sex can be pleasurable for both partners. He needs to go carefully, particularly the first few times. It can help if he first inserts a (lubed) finger, then two, to get you used to having something stuck in there and help the hole relax. He should then go in bit by bit, going just a bit deeper every time.
Some sort of lubricant is essential - he can't go in there dry. If you've already been having vaginal sex, and he's well lubed from your natural lubricants, that can work, and saliva can also be used, but frankly neither is effective as a purpose-designed lubricant such as KY Jelly. His own pre-come is unlikely to be enough, unless he's really well covered in it.
Some people do advise not going directly from vaginal to anal (for fear of spreading yeast infections), which would rule out using the possibility of being already lubricated by vaginal sex. I must admit we've not followed this advice, and haven't had any problems, but that's the limited experience of one couple...
I do agree that he shouldn't go from anal to anywhere else, at least not without a thorough cleaning.
I don't think there's any particular food advice - although now I give it some thought I'd probably advise against it after a strong curry or chilli! However, it's probably best to do it when you've had a **** within the last several hours, so the last few inches that he'll be occupying are clear.
The risk of pregnancy from anal sex is very small - there is a tiny chance of semen dribbling out and then into your vagina.
I believe there may be a slightly greater chance of transmitting disease than with vaginal sex, as there is more chance there of slight tears in the anal wall that will allow infections to enter your bloodstream.
And, of course, your arse may well be a little sore afterwards!
Some sort of lubricant is essential - he can't go in there dry. If you've already been having vaginal sex, and he's well lubed from your natural lubricants, that can work, and saliva can also be used, but frankly neither is effective as a purpose-designed lubricant such as KY Jelly. His own pre-come is unlikely to be enough, unless he's really well covered in it.
Some people do advise not going directly from vaginal to anal (for fear of spreading yeast infections), which would rule out using the possibility of being already lubricated by vaginal sex. I must admit we've not followed this advice, and haven't had any problems, but that's the limited experience of one couple...
I do agree that he shouldn't go from anal to anywhere else, at least not without a thorough cleaning.
I don't think there's any particular food advice - although now I give it some thought I'd probably advise against it after a strong curry or chilli! However, it's probably best to do it when you've had a **** within the last several hours, so the last few inches that he'll be occupying are clear.
The risk of pregnancy from anal sex is very small - there is a tiny chance of semen dribbling out and then into your vagina.
I believe there may be a slightly greater chance of transmitting disease than with vaginal sex, as there is more chance there of slight tears in the anal wall that will allow infections to enter your bloodstream.
And, of course, your arse may well be a little sore afterwards!
I'm not into anal sex,but I do know when a woman first has vaginal sex it is painful and lubricants should be used to help with insertion of the penis,It can be painful the first few times until it adjusts to the size of what been is inserted.So I don't know but I would assume if people decide to have regular anal sex the same thing would occur the anus would stretch to accomodate.Everything else you've said I agree with must use condoms and never insert anywhere else after.
It seems t me that if anal sex were natural, the anus would stretch in teh manner of the vagina to accomodate the penis and all this pre/post preparation would not be necessary.
My personal feeling is that if one has to go through all this preparation and cleaning, etc,
anal sex just ain't natural...the anus is exclusively an organ of exit, and there are all sorts of bacteria in there that we probably shouldn't be messing around with?
has nothing to do with religion, just my opinion...I don't think you'd enjoy it if your boyfriend didn't use lubricants that it could be quite painful (particularly if he is "well endowed" and a condom is a must. and whatever you do, DO NOT allow your partner to remove his penis from your anus and insert it anywhere else if he does not thoroughly wash it with soap and water..you don't want all that bacteria in your female bits.
Note, I'm not condoning it, just a few words of advice from things that I've read.
Jim
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