ever since i can remember, i have always had one really large flap type thing(sorry i dont know the scientific name! labia i think?) which sort of hangs down alot more than the other one on the other side, although that one seems to hang down aswell. it doesnt seem to bother my boyfriend..but i just dont think it looks normal and i always used to be afraid of any sexual contact becuase i was scared about what they would think it was. i know every vagina is different..but is mine TOO different?