low sex drive

[kerallen]

I'm a 27 year old women. I'm not on birth control and do not have kid's.  I think that my sex drive has decreased.  My husband and I are wanting to have a baby but it's not happening because I don't want to have sex!  Any help would be appreciated.  

[kerallen]

Thanks

[NOHARD]

Hi, so not in the mood then, well all this is down to your husband, its us men who need to awaken the sleeping, love in you, a nice bath together, candles, wine and enjoy your selfs, then off to be bedded by him more wine and candles sets the mood, lots of foreplay and away you go, if this does not help try the good old fashened way, try watching some porn together, nothing kinky, get him to find some soft porn, works wonders for my wife when we were a bit younger.
Look if you think your a bit drydown below then try some vit B 12, I did read a very good letter on it, said to get things flowing again, a little DHEA may help, but please read up about that one.
Good Luck

[kerallen]

Thanks

[kerallen]

Hi!  It's not that I don't enjoy sex. I do like it!  I'm just not in the mood much anymore.  Maybe I wasn't clear.  The sex hasn't stopped. I'm just not in the mood for it as much as I use to be.

[Eddie1994]

Have your Doctor check your blood work especially for thyroid problems.

[monaro]

Why dont you want to have sex. You have to change your attitude and want sex.  Negative thoughts surely wont help. Did u ever enjoy sex?  Do u like the pleasure of sex?  Have you had an orgasm?  You have to think about sex and want it for things to work. Maybe if in the past your husband pulled out before he came this has spoiled it for you. Think about trying different positions maybe he isnt entering you far enough to get you aroused.  Talk about it with him.