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man unable to achieve orgasm
I am 36 and over the last 3 years I've had more and more instances of being unable to achieve an orgasm during normal sexual activity or extended sexual activity. I can regularly perform for a normal time of about 90 minutes before reaching an orgasm. In extended activity I've had 3 separate instances that it took between 5-8 hours of very physical and aggressive sex to achieve orgasm. It has been 7 months since my last orgasm and in that time I've had numerous sexual activity but absolutely can't achieve an orgasm. In the last 40 hrs I have in my words treated my wife to a gift no women beside her is getting. We've had a total of 4 sessions in a 3 day period the first was 5 hrs that night. The next morning we had another session lasting 4.5 hrs that evening was the 3rd session lasting 4 hrs and yesterday was the 4th lasting almost 5 hrs. I am now at day 5 and still can't have an orgasm no matter what type of stimulation is used to try. I have noticed that in the last 3-4 months my erection is fading away during intercourse and is unable to be recovered once it goes limp. I am starting to be concerned as to what is happening and I hope that maybe I can get your idea what might be the cause and what suggestions you have
Get your testosterone level checked. Same thing happened to me and mine was low. Refrain from sex for a while as your burning out your bodies production of nitric oxide causing your ED now. Raising your testoterone level should improve your erection and orgasm problems.
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This is quite an abnormal case. Urologist can guide you or sexologist. Exercises like Male deer exercise, Sat kriya( yoga), Energy yoga locks, anal peripheral prostate massage or abdominal prostate massage can help to get orgasm. Google for the above techniques.
These marathon sessions may be counterproductive as with anything that is repeated for such a long time without success. All this continued friction motion would tend to deaden the nerves on your skin I would think. Do you shave your shaft? This may seem minor, but anything done to the skin would affect nerve sensations. Have you tried just curtailing intercourse for a few days to see if there's any improvement?
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