older man younger woman can't stay hard

[lovepugs1]

I'm a 27yo flight attendat and I'm dating a 57yo doctor (ob/gyn). We get along great, but when it comes to sex we're having issues. Im able to get him  hard via oral, but it doesn't last long enough for him to penatrate me. I'm very tight, and just the attempt to insert his penis inside me will cause him to go soft. After a lot of work and deadication
(including a stiff neck haha) on  my part, he is able ejaculate though oral sex, but its starting to take longer and longer; due to him going limp on and off during  the act. I've dated older men before, and never had this problem. I know he's super attracted to me becuz...  he tells me so all the time, ..plus I'm cute, and i spend alot of time maintaing my apperance....   I feel like becuz he's a doctor he would know if he had a condition, and would be able to get whatever medications ness to take care of it. So my question is..    is there anything i can I do to remedy this issue.  Any advice is welcome. Thanks.

[NOHARD]

Hi Pugs, sounds very muck like your doctor lover needs a doctor, you know what they say, doctors are there worst patients going, there the ones who think its not them, but this time it is.
The problem with ED it can be a sing of other things going wrong, and not just his penis, the best thing for you is drag him along to a good doctor.
Get him tested out, full works.
Good Luck

[AnnieBrooke]

I don't think age 57 means the end of erections.  Your doc has an issue, either from being under a lot of stress (like Life360 suggests) or because he has the kind of problem that something like Viagra is designed to address.  It's interesting to me that even with oral, he is beginning to flag.  Ask him in the kindest way if he has ever been checked about this, and see what he says.

[Life360_Dave]

I think in some ways doctors are under a lot of stress and having vaginal intercourse entails much more effort then laying back with oral. Maybe if you guys went on a vacation where he had more strengh it would be different.

[Vance2335]

Well not too sure on this age difference thing, but that is for another time. As far as him, HE needs to take care of it. He is a Dr and needs to consult another Dr for his ED.