Try oral sex... It works. Don't be a bad person... Women want oral sex but they rarely perform it on us without condoms...
How is she being a bad person?
does your partner masturbate frequently or take any medication? If he masturbates frequently tell him to leave his penis alone for a couple weeks..the "tightness" one can apply with his hand is considerably different than that of you and his penis/brain or whatever stuff is involved becomes used to reaching orgasm this way.
I experienced this several years ago before I was married again and after a 5 year drought without sex and it took me stopping masturbation and eventually it worked and things were back to normal.
Hi I do allways preform oral sex on my boy friend and I enjoy doing it ! the problem is I feel like it's all to my advantage and I get more pleasure out of sex than him ! SO is there other things I can do ?