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painful love making
My husband and I have been married for 9 months I was a virgin the first time we made love and it hurt a lot we thought once we did it for awhile it would get better but it still hurts or is uncomfortably some positions r better than others. It hurts when he puts it in and when he uses his fingers he came only use one other wise it hurts. An most the time I ask him if he could be done because it hurts to much. I can feel him inside me really well and when he comes I can fell him about to and when he does half the time it hurt a lot It feels like hes hitting somethingand he says when he uses his fingers he can feel something???
It sounds like you are built small there, your vagina opening and he is large. One thing, more more more foreplay. The more kissing and making out you do the more you'll get turned on and the wetter you'll get.
Also, try using a good lube. But if it still hurts, he needs to be more gentle. I can enjoy sex without my penis being all the way in. That's not a must with a lot of men. He needs to be more focused on your pleasure.
Also, try using a good lube. But if it still hurts, he needs to be more gentle. I can enjoy sex without my penis being all the way in. That's not a must with a lot of men. He needs to be more focused on your pleasure.
River, i know exactly how you feel my doctor told me that since i was so small an he was larger that it could take some time to adjust to the way he.can fit an.you can be.able to.enjoy A healthy sexual encounter with your husband
Hi River, Well your either getting vaginal spasms, this is were a band inside your vagina tightens up when you have sex.
Or it could be that your husband is a bit on the large size, so this means lots of foreplay, this will A, get your natural juices running, and B, help relax you, so this make penetration a lot easier.
Ok one last thing, find yourself a candle that for you would not hurt you for penetration, you will also need a tin about 8 inchs high, which you will need for extra wax, now you shape the end of the candle just like a penis. so becomes a dildo, each week you heat up the wax and dip your dildo it to it twice after it cools the first time, what this will do is slowly increase its size of your new friendly dildo, so by using this on a daily basis with lubrication, after some time, you sould bring it up to your husbands size.
Please I do hope you can see just how this will help you, if not PM me.
Good Luck
Or it could be that your husband is a bit on the large size, so this means lots of foreplay, this will A, get your natural juices running, and B, help relax you, so this make penetration a lot easier.
Ok one last thing, find yourself a candle that for you would not hurt you for penetration, you will also need a tin about 8 inchs high, which you will need for extra wax, now you shape the end of the candle just like a penis. so becomes a dildo, each week you heat up the wax and dip your dildo it to it twice after it cools the first time, what this will do is slowly increase its size of your new friendly dildo, so by using this on a daily basis with lubrication, after some time, you sould bring it up to your husbands size.
Please I do hope you can see just how this will help you, if not PM me.
Good Luck
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