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[dana_dana]

I'm 32 divorced female ,i was married for 3 years and now divorced for 5 years,my sexual life while marriage was very bad,i never reach the satisfaction point while intercourse,i masturbated a lot ,and I'm doing now,i can masturbate 12 or 14 times one after another ,lately i succeeded to reach the satisfaction point while masturbation inside,i always do it outside,I'm a normal woman fears god,but i have a strange thoughts in sex,never do it but it's in my mind..
I'm not a hawker and was never be ,but i can make phone sex with more than one man,i love a man ,but i can talk to him then i don't get enough so i can make it with another one via phone ,and sometimes i stay for a long time not thinking of sex at all,this happen when I'm depressed or very sad..
please i need a help.

[Caryopteris]

Yes, it is normal to be attracted sexually to more than one person.  Apparently we crave sex to ensure the survival of our species.  Unfortunately, whether the rules are made by God or man, society frowns on multiple sex partners.  It has the potential to spread disease.  It upsets those affected if it is discovered.  While many men think it is fine to have extramarital affairs, they also have egos and want to believe their mate only wants them and would never mate with another.  So it is safe and normal to want sex outside of a relationship, but it is safest to keep fantasies to yourself.  Alternatively, if your partner is open-minded, you can share fantasies and do role-playing with him.  But in some cultures, I am sure even this is dangerous.  If you want to keep your current partner and you know they are socially reserved or the jealous type, be careful.  But if you are lucky, you can find a partner who wants to be faithful, but also enjoys good variety and role play to keep sex exciting.  I understand you are tempted, but the fact you ask the question suggests that the culture you live in may be very strict, and sometimes we make mistakes when we forget how uptight those around us are.  Not to say they aren't doing things that are wrong, but they can be very judgmental of others.  

[dana_dana]

i mean is it normal to feel like making sex with more than one person?
caryopteris,thank you so much about ur reply but yes i lie to him offcourse, i didn't get enough when i need sex,not real one i mean phone sex or masturbation,
what i'm asking about IS IT NORMAL to feel that i wanna make sex with more than one person,not only the one i love i mean,when i feel excited i feel no enough,

[Caryopteris]

Feelings of guilt that we learn growing up can cause problems enjoying sex when we are of age.  Personally I can't see how masturbation or phone sex and sexting can be wrong, but until you convince yourself that orgasms outside of marriage are healthy, you are going to have trouble relaxing and understanding what your mind and body want to achieve orgasm.  I think it's healthy and guilt is not useful.  Just don't hurt anybody else by lying to your partner and other common sense right and wrong issues.  

[Carly1306]

I don't get what your question is here? Are you ashamed of all the 'phone sex' you've been having or something?