premature ejaculation

[arham_aimi90]

I am 25 years of age , i have started having sex six months ago , i used to masturbate since i was 13 but when i reached 15 , i came to know the side effects of masturbating and i reduced it allot but could not be able to stop it , when i had sex first time , i ejaculated abruptly after inserting , when i decided to did it second time , i ejaculated in condo* , i reached the climax many times when she is on me during romance , i also started doing start and stop method but did not realized any change(although i did it four to five times)  , now i use numb creams to avoid premature ejaculation(p.e) but really want to get rid of that problem , i feel that i my body is adjusted for p.e which has become too difficult for me to unlearn i am really concerned for my future sexual life and committed to get rid of that problem , if someone had same kind of problem and recovered , please help me !!!! please tell me should i look for consulting the urologist ..

[arham_aimi90]

i have felt that during sex or even masturbation my penis acts so sensitively(specially during sex) and reach climax in just 8 to 10 seconds, after trying start and stop and squeezing method (for about 12 days , one or twice a day and about 15 minutes every time) , although i took control over how to come back before reaching ejaculation , tried to be relax and diverted my attention to somewhere else , i could not be able to take longer my ejaculation process , i don't think it is still a psychological problem , is there any Permanent medicinal treatment for such kind of problems ???

[Bhupinder Kaur, MD]

Hello,
It can be due to premature ejaculation. The commonest cause of premature ejaculation is the anxiety of performance. The treatment of premature ejaculation is having a psychological session with the couple, stop-start or squeeze-pause techniques, desensitizing creams and SRRI(selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors) in severe cases. My sincere advice is to consult a urologist.

It is very difficult to precisely confirm a diagnosis without examination and investigations and the answer is based on the medical information provided. For exact diagnosis, you are requested to consult your doctor. I sincerely hope that helps. Take care and please do keep me posted on how you are doing.