my boyfriend and i have been together a year next month,and now he is having alot of probloems in the bedroom to where it makes me feel like he is just not turned oin by me anymore, and i am a very attractice women,we can be cleaning around the house and he gets a hard on, we can talk about it and he pops up, but when it comes to the night he dont wanna rise to help for nothing,what shall we do?