sexual health

[bailey34]

Can your rectal area be damaged if your having anal sex once a week with your partner? Is it normal for a man and women to have regular anal sex? Why does it hurt so bad sometimes, and other times only alittle bit, until its fully penetrated, then it feels amazing?

[NOHARD]

Hi Bailey, Glad to help someone and so nice to get thanks.
Good Luck

[bailey34]

Thank you so much Nohard, you've helped me alot! :)

[NOHARD]

Hi Bailey had a thought as I was finishing the last post, its this google dodson and ross, did have a look for you, there is a section on anal sex, lots to read from girls and women, with questions and tips, this should help you out a great deal.
Good Luck

[NOHARD]

Hi Bailey. Both oils should be OK  and we have used both lots of times.
This pain your on about just remember the sphincter muscle is a very strong muscle if you thing just what it holds back, you need to relax more at the time of entry, if you can, and thats about the best you can do, try to get hubby to give you foreplay there before he starts, as this should help relax you, see how you get on.
Good Luck

[bailey34]

I know that olive oil works well, baby oil is simular! The question is, can it damage my rectum? Can it cause any kind of pain/discomfort after you had it, about a month later, or is this a sign of something else going on?  Also, what lubricant can numb the penetration process, because thats the only time it really hurts?

[NOHARD]

Hi Bailey, Weather its wrong or right is up to you and nobody else, and as you say can be amazing, suggest you find some other lubricant, seems the one you have now is not doing the job, is hubby giving some finger before he enters you, always done well with baby oil, but lots of it with the wife, and like you enjoyed it.
Hope this helps.
Good Luck