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swelling of the penis

I was wondering why when during sex with my girlfriend, whenever I'm rock hard or super horney, my penis swells up in her & makes it hard for her to maintain moisture . Whereas it's never been a problem for her ever .The head of my penis is really thick in diameter & she complains about it often.It's causing a strain on our relationship because we both want sex everyday however it's hard for her to enjoy it.Help please!!!!!
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1622896 tn?1562364967
Hi please give your Girlfriend much attention as possible it take's longer for a woman to get turned on , be Gentle lot's of foreplay you shall be just fine , take care , Enjoy ,
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How much foreplay are you having before inserting? A woman's vagina can expand wide enough to give birth but it needs some time and attention to do so, but it will be well worth it.  Try withdrawing until just the end is inside her and move around to stimulate her opening. That will relax the muscles a bit more and probably produce more moisture. Another option is to get her off first with oral or digital sex before you insert your penis. In my experience this always makes things looser and much more slippery.
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I really appreciate your response & I'll try it next time. Thanks man
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1622896 tn?1562364967
Hi may i suggest using extra Lube that will help ease the problem , please try K Y Jelly its water based , take care ,  
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