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want to try Anal Sex

i am a big fat *** girl , i want to have Anal sex with my fiance and want to give him pleasure with doggy style. i have tried before but its paining me like hell and not even adjusting with the penis in my hole. can you suggest me to do Anal masturbating before sex? and how i will do this? i love ***** masturbating but i want to have doggy style too.

please help me.
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That is FALSE i so many ways..

I was a regional manager for adult stores and waterbased is NOT the right lube for anal! I also have anal sex and I have found ways to not have pain. U may private message me for more info
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I'M A 46 YR. OLD MALE. I'VE GOT A PROBLEM WITH STAYING ERECT LONG ENOUGH TO PLEASE MY WIFE OR EJACTULATE THROUGH MASTURBATION. FOR THIS REASON I'VE RESORTED TO OTHER MEANS TO PLEASE HER. NOW MY PROBLEM IS PLEASING MYSELF. I'VE FOUND THAT I CAN EJACULATE THROUGH MASTURBATION IN A SMALL % OF THE TIME. FOR THIS REASON I'VE RESORTED TO ANAL MASTURBATION MYSELF. I STARTED OUT USING MY FINGERS TO STRETCH THE ANAL CANAL. NOW I USE A VIBRATING RABBIT VIBRATER. I DIDN'T USE LUBRICATION THE 1ST TIME AND IT WAS SOMEWHAT A LITTLE PAINFUL. I BELIVE I MIGHT'VE TORN THE ANUS/RECTUM A LITTLE BECAUSE I FELT IT PUNCH IT'S WAY IN WHEN IT ENTERED. NOW HOWEVER I USE LUBRICATION ON THE VIBRATER. WITH THIS IT READILY SLIDES IN WITH MINIMAL RESISTANCE. IF YOU ARE SURE YOU WANT TO TRY ANAL MASTURBATION I'D SUGGEST A WELL LUBRICATED VIBRATOR. I'VE FOUND IT VERY PLEASURABLE FOR ME. I DO SUGGEST THAT YOUR BOWELS BE COMPLETELY EMPTIED AS THIS TYPE OF MASTURBATION CAN GET YOUR BOWELS TO MOVE WHEN YOU ARE DOING THIS. JUST TAKE IT SLOW. AS FOR ANA SEX YOUR HUSBAND WOULD BE ABLE TO ENTER YOUR ANUS ALOT EASIER IF YOU'RE PRACTICING ANAL MASTURBATION TO STRETCH THE OPENING WHERE IT WOULDN'T BE SO PAINFUL. I NOW DO THIS AT LEAST 2-3 TIMES A MONTH AND HAVE FOUND ITVERY EASY TO ENTER MYSELF NOW WITHOUT ANY PAIN.
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Be very careful with anal. You can get tears if you don't use lubrication. It should be water based. Your boyfriend should also use a condom or he can get a bacterial infection. If this is something you really want to do then you should go as slow as possible. Make sure you have plenty of lubrication and stop if you feel any pain. Make sure you get those condoms. If your boyfriend gets a bacterial infection it can be passed to you through vaginal intercourse. Also, never go from anal to vaginal without changing the condom.
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