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1579573 tn?1297115280

why cant he keep it up? is it me?

Ok, I've been hooking up with this guy for a little over a month now. He has a girlfriend, and I'm usually not into guys, just something new and fun for me, so the relationship is purely sexual. When we get together, everything is going great until we try to actually do the deed. He can get me off with his hand and I can blow him no problem. But if we try to actually have sex he loses his erection. Wtf? What's happening? Is he just not attracted to me? When it happens he gets super pissed and starts apologizing. The thing is I know for a fact this isn't happening with his gf because sometimes I can here them having sex. So am I the problem?
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Its just part of being alive and human.  We all screw up and find ourselves in situations. Like I said, I am sure it is not you, but the situation.  
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1579573 tn?1297115280
Thanks for the quick reply. I know its not right, I feel a little guilty too.
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He can be feeling guilty when he is cheating with you.  He may not feel relaxed and this may be making him lose his hard on.  I don't really think it is you, but the situation.
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