I was a closet smoker and quit cold turkey before spending a weekend with my family at a reunion. Being at my cousins bed n breakfast with my family EVERYWHERE made it impossible for me to sneak away to start smoking again. It would've worked even if I wasn't a closet smoker cuz I would have them be my cheerleaders/babysitters and remind/support me in quitting.
Quitting is relatively simple. You simply quit smoking, period. Then you hang on for dear life and one day you will emerge feeling semi human again. Will power is the key and wanting to do it is the key to willpower. That and looking at pictures and listening to stories of personal experiences of people just like you who tried but won too late in the game. Go visit a ward in the hospital full of copd patients. I gaurantee that this will motivate you to quit.
Hello again. First of all, we have to work on your attitude. Being so negative isn't going to do you any good at all. Quitting smoking is very hard and a positive attitude is imperative. Without it, you will likely fail. I suggested on your post of May27th to look up whyquit.com? Did you? If not, do it. It's been a lifesaver for many of us. It also supports a cold turkey quit (which is how I did it) if you want to join, but if you don't, you can still read all the articles.
The way you do it is just stop. It's hard, very hard, but you won't be miserable forever although it may feel like it. I told you before I'd quit several times beginning in Jul07. You can expect an increase in anxiety for about 40 - 60days. If you feel you simply can't tolerate that though, then see your dr and ask to go on an anti-depressant for a few months. That's helped several members. I just waited it all out and here I am, a year and 3mos quit and So happy and feel So much better! Simply put, there is no *easy* way to stop smoking. What makes it tolerable is having a positive attitude and nerves of steal. Upload a tracker to keep yourself accountable and just take it one day at a time. Sometimes, it's one minute at a time - everyone who has quit, has struggled. But if we can do it, so can you! Really. Keep posting and best of luck!
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1y 3m 3w 4d 15:19 smoke-free, 4,815 cigs not smoked, $1,324.13 saved, 2w 2d 17:15 life saved