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i dont know where this belongs but...

okay well i was cutting my wrist and like so far it has been 2 weeks since i last did that and i am feeling really good about that. Now i find out that this really cute guy is into me and he likes me and wants to get to know me but now because i have these marks on my wrist i am afraid to go out and meet him and like get to know him...because i am afraid that he will end up seeing the marks on my arm and not want to talk to me or think i am weird..but like i dont know if i should just come out and tell him,....or to just wait untill he sees it and asks me about it ???? his friend who is my cusins boyfriend and the one that is technically seting us up together said that i shouldnt tell him unless he sees it bc the way he put it is,  "it is not his busness to know" and like i am not doing it anymore .... and the other thing is should i tell him i had a misscarrage with my last boyfriend ??? or not ?? please help me with this one bc idk wat i should do....
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ok well the scars from my cutting are slowly going away and the guy that was interested in me...is in the Army and he left last thursday to go back to his army base and then he is leaving for Iraq for a year and when he gets home from Iraq he is going to Texas and then idk if he will be back here....but it stinks bc i never did get to meet him ,,,, i wish i did................          :(
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Lots of cover up m,ake up out there but also focus on the reason you did this to your self , you seem to want to talk about the miscarriage and other things, come back to us .
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You should still go and get to know him. The marks are just part of your past and if he's worth it he won't care how you got the marks. I think it would be better if he brought up if he sees it, or else it will be like you're desperate to get his attention.
Go out with him, get to know each other, and when the time's right he'll know. Let him get to know the real you, and when the subject comes up and he asks you, tell him the truth. Don't hide it from him, but don't let it be the first thing you tell him about yourself.
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