SOS. i need a nice advice or whatsoever

[depressed788]

I have an excess skin on my ears (its like an antenna if you know what i mean). I want to have it cut out by surgery but my mother doesnt approve for some people here in the phil believes that it brings good luck.. and now im taking up nursing and i would have to tie up my hair in a week or two. i just hope my classmates would not bully me or something jst likw other people do to me. i need some encouragement to boost my sel esteem!!!

[Jimmy223]

just pretend it is completely normal. my fingers have like a lot of excess skin and some excess skin under my eye PLUS I have dry skin so it looks like I'm like really old. but really it's funny how my friend never really noticed it until one day he said he has so much excess skin on HIS fingers and I looked at them and I never noticed them and then showed him my hand which had more and he never noticed it either. If someone teases you then they must be really shallow and goes around evaluating everyone's look. I mean who really cares if your different they'll get used to it sooner or later. I met this guy who had a mole recently burned off his face now there's burnt dead skin where it used to be. At first i thought it was weird and was wondering what it was and the next day I completely forgot that the mole thing or really, that whole day when I saw it ever existed, I only remembered it again when some other guy asked what it was.

[depressed788]

thank you so much.that's a big help.=) i just hope it will work for me.. thanks again!!

[slow_healer]

Act like it's not a big deal, and people will assume it's not a big deal. People pick up on insecurity, and if you're already convinced that they're going to hate you because of your ears, the jerks out there will feed into it. It's pretty pathetic of someone to bully a person because of their ears. Don't let it get to you.