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13 & pregnant
Whats best for me to do i need some support from others, im 8 weeks 3 days
Best Answer
just because you are 13 doesn't mean you cant raise your baby tell your parents about your baby and let them know that you were forced sweety just cause your 13 doesn't mean you cant raise a baby or that your not mature you are mature because your on here asking for help and age aint nothing but a number there is lots of women and man out there that are 18 and older and they are extremely immature so dont listen to anybody saying your imature there imature for calling you that just keep your head up and pray just remember that that baby is a part of you your parents could help you rasie it if they want to or you can do an open adoption that way you can atlease see your baby and be a part of its life and also you should report the guy even if he is your age but if he is over 13 you should seriously report him before he does the samething to another girl keep your head up and if you need to talk you can inbox me
Well from self experience I didn't want believe I was pregnant til I started to show and finally peed on a stick and saw a doctor I was 14weeks and that's when I finally told my grandparents I was 18years old and still living wit my family working at a fast food restaurant even at 18years old it was indeed very hard financially my grandparents were made at first when I had to tell my mom she actually tried to convince me into abortion which I was totally against, my grandparents on the other hand tries to convince me for adoption, but I decided to keep my baby girl and I have never been happier. I do have to agree with Jeni18, just because your 13doesnt mean you can't do it the choice is yours but you will just need to look at ALL of your pros and cons, your life wont be the same after your baby is here or even starting now, you will need to think how you can support your child financially FINISH SCHOOL other wise it will be extremely harder to support your baby trust me. As for the father I don't know the store but you make seem as he raped you, of that is the case you need to press charges asap, like now. And if you do not want him in your/your childs life do not put him on child support because then he will be legally paying you to see the child since he is giving you $$$ to help support it. I understand you are young and scared but you need to think of all the pros and cons for this *** you get bigger and see the doctor you will start to get attached to the baby watching it grow. I believe if you really want this child you can make it work. Important thing is do not stress out to much because that isn't healthy for your baby.
First of all, he is 19 and you are 13. That alone is statutory rape so he will be in trouble for that. And on top of that it was actual rape as well. Tell your parents, if you are closer to your mom tell her because its more of a girl thing and I can understand you feeling more comfortable telling a female than a male, either way, and tell them what he did to you and that you are or think you are pregnant. If they react badly, it is probably because they want to kill him. You didnt do anything wrong.
Do what you think is right love.
Im not normally a person to hold back from telling people about personal things but this is so difficult and im worried people wont believe my story and think im some sort of slag getting pregnant so young, on the other hand im not sure i can get him done for it
Tell your parents im Im 16 years old and 39 weeks and I made a choice to keep mines and yu should it will be ok..
Again thanks for all the suplort it isnt going un-noticed your all older and wiser and i need this x
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