HELP PLEASE! Missed periods, still a virgin, 14 years old...what's going on?

[Chelseacarroll]

Okay, well I'm a 14 year old girl and I missed my last period. It worried me alot even though I've never had sex. Now, my period is really late and I'm really scared and stressed. I've had a boyfriend for 3 months and I really love him, but I DO NOT let him do anything that I'm not ready for. So I'm still a virgin, and I don't plan on that changing any time soon, but anyway, I don't know what's going on. I'm afraid to tell him or my mom, because I know my mom will immediately start accusing me of being I ginormous ***** and destroying my purity WHICH I HAVEN'T DONE. The most I've done is wrapped my legs around his waist while we were in a pool. In swimsuits. So I don't think anything could've happened there...but anyway, I really need some help here. I'm scared beyond words, you guys. Please answer as soon as possible. Thank you.
UPDATE
Alright, well I took a pregnancy test today to see if I'm pregnant because I missed my period last month and I should've started yesterday but I haven't. I'm 14 and a virgin, but I've been showing some signs of pregnancy and I'm very, very scared and paranoid. I just wanted to be sure. I took one today and it said it was negative. It recommended to take it in the morning I think, but it was around 10:00 or 11:00 pm. It's been around a month since my last period should've started. I've been eating a lot less lately and I've been very stressed. I woke up with a headache yesterday and last month my stomach was cramping like period cramps. My breasts might've grown a little bit but they're not sore at all. I've been looking kinda bloated lately, but it might just be me. I know I haven't had sex, but vaginas are weird and complicated, y'know? The most "sexual" thing I ever did with my boyfriend was wrap my legs around his waist in a pool while he carried me around. In our swimsuits. And I'm PRETTY SURE he didn't ***...because we weren't really doing anything besides kissing and floating around at a waterpark. I would've known? Right? I dunno, I guess there's a lot that I still don't know. But like I said, it's been around a month and I took my pregnancy test today. I didn't really have to pee so it took a while and I was rushed to try to force it out, which is pretty impossible to do when you're peeing. I touched the absorbent part of the test for less than a second before I used it. Would this change the result? Is there anything else I should do? I feel like I'm going to miss this period as well. Should I go to a doctor? What are the odds of a false negative? BECAUSE I REALLY NEED TO KNOW. It's stressing me out so much and I'm so scared.
PS: sorry if its too much information, but I have masturbated (well not really, just feeling around) before, and I don't think my hymen could've broke, but that was a while ago.
PPS: when I missed my period the first time,I put a tampon in just to be sure, and when I took it out, it had a little light brown/pinkish stuff on it, but then that was it. I felt sick today, but I think it was just from the nerves when I told my mom...because she jumped to conclusions...

[AnnieBrooke]

It doesn't sound like you are pregnant.  I am sorry your mom jumped to conclusions.  You have missed only one period?  That does happen to women on occasion, and at 14 periods can be irregular since you are still getting them in order.  You could have a cyst in the ovary that is still resolving, they can make periods odd.  Have you reached the point where a second period has been due, and it has not come, or are you just at the point where you have missed one?  If you get to the date when you would expect to see your next period, and it doesn't come also, I would see an ob-gyn.  (Not necessarily to check for pregnancy per se, but to see why your period is AWOL.)  It would be awfully hard to get pregnant from the incident in the swimming pool that you described; even if he had ejaculated, the sperm would have trouble making it through the chlorine in the water.  Please try to relax.  If you want to take another test, get some Dollar Store tests (they are cheap and reliable) and take one each morning for a few days.  They won't make your period come but they might ease your mind.

[loulou345]

im 14 and I am 2 weeks late and I have had no sex, no stress so I don't know whats going on?

[Lookket]

Same Im 14 and Im 2 month late in 2 days it would be 3 month and I got morning sickness I never has sex and my stomach is getting bigger

[Shakester2]

i am 14 and about 4 or 5 months behind and it is stressing me out because i am cramping like no other

[crazkid]

im 13 and I missed over 8 months of mine and im very scared

[slexflip]

same 13 missed mine and don't know what to do there is a lump down there that is about 1 cm but i just think it is skin but don't know plesssssssss help

[RanniaM]

I'm 14, I'm a virgin and I've missed almost 3 periods. I'm really worried. WHAT IS GOING ON ???

P.S. I'm scared to tell my mum and I don't think she' going to have time for me since she's divorcing my dad.

[willoe345]

im 12 and mine is 3 days late and im worried sick my breasts hurt and i have cramps like normal but no blood :(

[I_love_horses]

Im 13 and never ever ever ever had sex and I had my first period on the 1st of may and its the 7th of June now and it hasnt come!!! I know periods can be irregular and stuff but its been over 4 weeks and im pretty scared! Someone please help! I have health anxiety and I keep looking up my symptoms and its ruining my life please help!

[Lizryn]

Im 13, i havent had my period in two months, im a virgin and my pee smells nasty. idk whats going on! Is there somthing wrong? i admit, i masterbate sometimes but not often. idk what to do

[Sonora_Despres]

the reason for this is because for the first 2-3 years after you get your first period, your body has to get used to it so being late or missing it or having different flows is COMPLETLEY normal. there is a 98% chance youre all perfectly fine.

[LeesiGal]

Girls, I’m 22 and have missed sooo many periods over the years, it’s nothing to worry about, I promise!

[Chelseacarroll]

Thank you. Well my period was due two days ago and I still haven't had it...my mom really doesn't want to take me to a doctor but I would like to go.

[Gingerninja12]

I'm 14 and I started my period in July 2016 and I had it in August. It's been 4 months and I haven'tt had my period. I am a virgin. I am really scared. Help me please!

[AnnieBrooke]

I can see that, if you have only come up two days late on one period, and if your mom believes you that you have not been having sex, she would tend to downplay the urgency of you getting a doctor visit.  ;)  Go ahead and pick up some home pregnancy tests at Dollar Store and take one with first-morning urine for a couple of days.  It should calm you down and your period should come also, which I am sure will also calm you down.  

[Chloe706]

Hey, girl. Chill~ I am 16 years old and I got my period every 6 months. That's way more serious than your prob. And I am a virgin. Maybe you're stress, that's all.

[Sarah_seran]

What happened? I'm wondering very badly because i haven't had mine since mid January and it's mid May. I'm so scared.

[itzmiaa]

ive been having mine regular and all of a sudden it stopped its been 2 months and i am a virgin and i am 13

[carrol_gnab]

can someone help me figure this out?

[carrol_gnab]

can someone help me figure this out?

[carrol_gnab]

Hello, im14 years old too..my period hasnt came since january..on febuary 1 i did some things..i took 2 pregnacy test but they both came back negative..ive been very worried latley &i havent had any symtons but cramping and my breast hurting.

[ERIN041299]

I'm 14 years old my periods are late by 5 months and I'm still a virgin what might it be

[ERIN041299]

I'm 14years old and still a virgin but my periods are 5 months late

[bunny2319]

I'm fourteen years old and I'm seven months late and I'm also a virgin.

[Jo_luvs_5sos]

HELL NO YOUR NOT PREGNANT! This has happened to me at least 6 times its completely normal. And if your mom doesn't undertsandthats it's normal she obviously did not go through what billions of girls go through that guys don't have to. Lol but yeah your fine darling got a bright future and stuff, btw I'm 14 as well I've had missed periods since the 6th grade.

[Jo_luvs_5sos]

Good news is that your not pregnant. Bad news you might have an infection (no not herpes). Or your just not exacting enough or youve been exercising lately like if you've recenlty after a long time started exercising. It doesnt even have to be exercising it could be just moving a lot more than you usually do on a daily basis all of a sudden. For example when I wanted to save up money for a concert I decided to do chores to get the money. I had to do vacuuming and laundry mowing instead of sitting around and just doing hw or watching TV and going on social Media (pretty much sums up my life). But I hope this helps! Don't stress unless you've had sex! That's my motto, not really...lol

[Jo_luvs_5sos]

What exactly did you do?

[misha_honey]

im 15, been getting my periods since i was 11, never ever missed one, and they came exactly every 28 days, im still a virgin, although i have been fingered but i dont think that that really changes anything. but now my period has been late by 17 days and idk what happening.i've been eating waaaay loads than usual, and i pee like every half an hour

[remar]

You're not pregnant. There are many reasons why a girl can be late or miss a period. Stress, not eating right, being more physically active.
You said you're urinating a lot more? Are you having any symptoms like burning or itching when you urinate? I'm asking because you may have a urinary tract infection. Or, it could be that you're just taking in a lot more liquids.
Try not to worry. Hopefully your period will come on time next month. If it doesn't then it might be time for a Drs visit.

[babygirl6279]

im 15 im 14 days late on my period I have never missed one period and I have had it since I was 10 I am still a virgin my boobs hurt anytime I move. my body gets super tender at times to where anytime I move I just want to cry. my arms get numb then get a sharp pain in them to where I cant move same with my left leg yes I have been super stressed lately but I have only been stressed since the 15th and I was suppose to start the 12th I don't know what to do im scared to tell my mom I know she will jump to conclusions what should I do??? some one please help

[remar]

You're having some unusual symptoms so I really think it's best to talk to your mom about what's going on. It might be stress but it would still be a good idea to see your Dr about your symptoms.

[Ken_Ken_ZZ]

I am Thirteen. I've missed only 2 periods but I am still scared. I masturbate sometimes but not a lot. My breast hurt and I get dizzy and some morning nausea.my breast grew a little (they are a bit tender) and cramps like period cramp I am a virgin. If I do have an irregular period can that affect my having children when I'm older?

[remar]

You're still very young so you're going through changes. Your periods will most likely become regular in the next couple of years.
Yes, irregular periods can make it a little harder to get pregnant because you need to ovulate to become pregnant. If you're having no period then you're not ovulating. Try not to worry about that right now though because like I said, you're body is still adjusting and your periods will most likely become regular soon.

[kenniehen1]

I'm glad you said you've missed your period during 6th grade, because it's the end of 6th grade and I got my period last year and I've missed it and I got really worried

[Oboeluver2468]

Hi I'm 13 and my period is almost 4 weeks late... I'm a virgin, and my breasts don't hurt and sometimes I get period cramps but nothing happens... Am I okay? Is this normal? What should I do?

[Brie750]

I'm 13, I've been getting my period for the past 2 years and my period is 40 days late. I am really good at tracking my period because my family travels a lot and I don't want to get caught with an unexpected period, but I can't help the occasional double period. For the past five days I have been experiencing severe pain located just above the hip bones on either side of my body, up near my collar bone, near the side breast tissue, and where the sides of my bra leads to my back. I understand that missed periods are common and nothing to worry about, but what about the pain? Sometimes it becomes very difficult to breath and sitting down often hurts near the top on my tail bone. I don't do diets, am not sexually active, sleep on a regular time table getting at least 8 hours of rest, and my exercise patterns have not changed at all. Stress could be a possibility, but I am stressed 90% of the time so I don't quite understand why it would affect me now, but the period is a strange, mysterious, painful force that always leaves questions. I have told my mother, and she gave me some blood thinners hoping that they would be the extra push my body needs to start the period. Could the pain relate to something else, or is that normal too?

[Tayrob]

Okay well im a 13 year old and its may 1 and I usually start at the end of the month! im so scared but im a VIRGIN and I really don't wanna tell me mom and I don't have cramps but back pains and my nipples have been hurting im really scared but I've never had sex and I have no bf . :((( Help me I need answers am I just late

[Brie750]

You should get your period soon. Try not to worry about it and focus on other things. That's what I did. I focused on my upcoming Math competition, and and few days later during that competition I got my period. Best thing is to not stress. I talked to my doctor about it and he said the same as everyone else. its normal so don't panic! same for you, Tayrob. the back pain is probably because your period is coming, and the breast pain is probably because they are developing. ( i saw your questions and asked my doctor about them too, and he was happy to help. If you don't get your period within the next week or two, talk to your parents despite how you think they will react. You can just tell your mom if you want.) Wish you all luck! -Brie

[Shy1134]

My bf and me were in the car and he cummed in his pants and I felt warmth but he said it didn't go though I had undies and shorts on and a skirt and I was wet, and he had a boner and I felt it and im wandering could I be pregnant, im a virgin tho

[Iggy313]

Very unlikely but I would go to a doctor just in case I had a similar thing happen to me in 8th grade my friend came and we were sharing the same seat and nothing happened

[sdtyuop]

I'm 12 and I haven't gotten my period in 4 months but on April 11th it was there and gone. I have been very stressed and im not sexually active and i will not be any time soon.  Lately I have had lots of break outs (acne) and ive remembered my dreams more vividly which is due to hormones being high so why wouldnt i be geting my period? i have felt my self but that wouldnt get me pregnant . i have been on hormone blockers but i have not been vacicinated in 2 years (i got my period when i was 9) it came back april of 2014 and had been regular since should i be worried?

[mrsgutis]

Just want to let you girls know that missing a few periods is normal for teens/pre-teens and if your boobs hurt its probably just growing pains nothing to worry about especially if you are virgins. most of us go through the same thing. the reason you have a few missed periods is because of hormonal imbalance, your periods should get more regular around 19 or 20 so don't fret or worry about it.

[RINOSAURUSLOL]

So im 12 two more months and im 13. So One day i went to the bathroom, my bathroom ( yes no *** or anything on the toilet seat ) and i randomly sometimes have ***, like when ure getting ure period , that type. but i wasn't on my period, i had one more week till my period, so i didnt go pee, and for some reason i just decided to wipe u know o-o and my finger touch a little of *** which was gross, so i wiped it off, and then i wiped, but idk what happen but my finger broke the toilet paper, and got inside my vagina, which felt awful! and this was for like 5 seconds! and i thought " can u get pregnant for this?" so the next week yeah i had my period perfectly fine. and 3-4 weeks now from that incident I've been having cramps, and I've earned some weight, I've felt like vomit for like 2 seconds and then no vomit, just like it gets in ure mouth and goes back ( yes its gross ) , but just for 2 seconds! and im scared im pregnant, and i know this might be silly because u need a males sperm to ( something something ) the egg. but idk if i am, i don't think i am, i tell myself " its all in ure head," and I've gotten information, i don't sleep well i stay up all night, but because i can't stop thinking about it. but yeah I've read things that say " no ure not pregnant because of that " and " if u feel this u might be " AND im like between the walls you know! please someone help me i don't know what to do! I've tried some medicine for my stomach not to hurt but it hurts anyway! can someone please just reply. sorry if this was too long, but i need help. i have a stepdad, and he's a good person , and if i tell my mom that my stomach hurts and all the symptoms, she's gonna assume it was my stepdad, if raped or anything. but no i know him for a lot of years he's a good person and would never do that, he's an officer, he would never done anything like that, so please can someone help me!