Keeping the heart Beating

[Katona1700s]

I found out that i was actually pregnant, but i miscarried. I'm only 17, turning 18 in a month. I'm not worried about getting pregnant now, yeah im kinda stupid, but its something complex. My dream is to become a mommy, but im worried about having another miscarriage. I dont know details on it, but if i have one doesnt that mean i'll be more likely to have another? I'm looking ahead in the future...to the dream i want to happen, but if my body refuses then how can i feel any satisfaction to life if i cant keep a baby's heart beating?

[Katona1700s]

Thanks :) you guys give me hope. Infact i think i might be pregnant again...i dont know if i should be as happy as i am or worried. Im still in school but i have always wanted this! I wont let my babies think they were mistakes at all, not like my parents and my boyfriend's parent. :)

[lilbit_17]

There are tons of perfectly heathy women out there that have experienced a miscarriage. It's not uncommon at all. I can tell you from experience. I lost a my first baby last march and after all the test came back they confirmed it was a chromosomal defect. I questioned and blamed myself for the longest time but it wasnt anything i did or could control. I got pregnant again five months after losing the first and now have a very healthy 4 month old little girl :) keep your head up! The chances of it happening again are not any greater or less.

[lovelyglover]

That's not necessarily true...I red somewhere that lots of first pregnancies end in miscarriage many of which are able to carry the next to term
in time yu will be a Mommy

Best wishes and keep yer head up :)